challenges and difficulties
Monaco is wary of becoming emotionally dependent on others, and may distance herself or deny her needs for relationships of closeness and intimacy so that she will not be vulnerable to rejection or abandonment. On the other hand, Kelly Monaco may cling excessively or need constant reassurance from loved ones and family. Developing a deep, inner sense of security, as well as the ability to give and receive nurturing are important tasks for Kelly.
She may have vague but ever-present feelings of guilt and fear that are difficult to pinpoint or eradicate. It is as if Kelly Monaco does not trust Life itself, and is always seeking ways to defend herself from its dangers and its unknowns. Kelly Monaco must learn to overcome her ingrained habit of discouragement and anxiety, and to see the world more as a friendly place than as a treacherous one.
Monaco is aware of her own shortcomings and is able to overcome many frustrations and limitations. She concentrates on her aims and goes about achieving them, even if she has to sacrifice something in the process.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Kelly Monaco instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Kelly Monaco needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
She is capable of withstanding outside influences and remaining constant and steady on her path, but when under stress Kelly Monaco becomes downright obstinate and implacable, resisting any change no matter how necessary or desirable the change may be. Tenaciously trying to preserve the status quo and hold on to what she has, she is apt to ignore the subtle signals she receives about needing to do something differently, which often leads to a crisis.
Kelly Monaco needs to learn the limits of her ability to control life, and to accept and even embrace change and loss of the familiar, in order to allow for new life and growth. "Letting go" is a major life lesson for her. Monaco also needs to develop a balanced attitude toward her appetites and desires, as Kelly Monaco tends to overindulge and/or deny herself excessively.
It is in her way of thinking, processing information and communicating that Kelly Monaco is most likely to wrestle with these issues. In Monaco's relationships with neighbors, colleagues, and acquaintances, she needs to try to bring out the qualities described above.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Kelly Monaco back, or which she is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Kelly Monaco tends to over-rely on luck or grace, living for tomorrow and gambling. Kelly is overconfident and tends to overextend herself and take on more than is humanly possible. Kelly is often dogmatic about her philosophy of life or religious beliefs.
Kelly Monaco seems to have an innate sense of cosmic awareness and is likely to have strong psychical or metaphysical talents. She is inclined to join some parapsychology groups where she may share her unusual experiences with others.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Cancer
Saturn in 12th house
Saturn Conjunct Pluto/MC
N. Node in Scorpio
N. Node in 3rd house
N. Node Opposition Jupiter
N. Node Conjunct Neptune/Pluto