Kay Lenz
in Relationships
Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know her inner core, for Kay Lenz only trusts and opens herself to a select few. Allowing herself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Lenz.
Kay has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Kay Lenz has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to herself. It is important for Kay Lenz to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express her feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
She is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Kay Lenz has a great deal of emotional depth.
Her own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Kay, and it is often difficult for her to share what she is feeling with others.
Kay Lenz frequently withdraws from the world and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of her own world.
Lenz identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and she wants to help them or care for them in some way.
Serious and emotionally reserved, Kay Lenz was probably never an exuberant, playful child, and she rarely expresses herself in a spontaneous, childlike manner. She is cautious about letting others get close to her and sometimes withdraws from people altogether. At times, Kay Lenz feels lonely or isolated, even when she is with people. Learning to appreciate her own company and find satisfying solitary activities is essential to Kay's emotional well-being.
She is very intuitive and has the ability to make the right decisions guided by her inner feelings. Kay Lenz has a sense of honor and pride and is considerate of others. Others respect Lenz and are willing to help her, because she does not act out of petty motives.
She is easily influenced by her environment and tends to get depressed when things do not go the way she expected. Relationships are not easy for Kay Lenz; she could be a recluse, avoiding most contact with others.
Her love feelings and desires are easily aroused but she may find it difficult to sustain her romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Kay Lenz enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and she does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Kay wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.
When she cares about someone, Kay Lenz likes to show her affection with small favors or tangible gestures.
Kay Lenz also has considerable artistic or creative skill. In fact, Kay is suited for a profession involving beauty or pleasure or making people happy in one form or another.
Kay Lenz is extremely amorous and it is difficult for her to go without romantic relationships for very long. When she is attracted to someone, Kay Lenz pursues her very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Being engaged in creative or artistic work can also satisfy her very strong desire for love and beauty.
Feelings of loneliness, extreme shyness and/or the fear of rejection plague Kay Lenz and may well inhibit her from expressing warmth and affection in an open way. Denying herself pleasure, comfort, and "nice things" due to feelings of unworthiness can also limit the joy Kay allows herself. Heartache and a loss of love in her life - perhaps while quite young - will serve to either close her heart to love or cause her to deeply cherish the friends and love she receives from others. The saying that "true love is hard to find" is certainly true for Kay Lenz, but she will value it tremendously when it does come into her life.
The feeling that "there is not enough for me" may cause her to be very frugal and stingy with money as well.
Kay Lenz tends to be attracted to people who are not quite what they seem. Gullible, romantic and rather easily seduced, Kay frequently falls in love with an image in her own mind, which she then projects onto the object of her affections, only to discover later that this person never really had the lovely qualities she endowed her with. Kay Lenz also confuses love relationships with pity, sacrifice, or misplaced notions of "selfishness", thereby setting herself up to be taken advantage of. She is capable of great devotion to a spiritual cause, for she is actually seeking some sort of transcendent or mystical experience through love.
Kay Lenz loves deeply, passionately and wholeheartedly, and others may find her intensity either extremely attractive or threatening. She is charismatic and can have a powerful emotional impact on others, especially those of the opposite sex. Lenz may use her attractiveness to manipulate others, sometimes without even realizing it.
Her energy and initiative seem to be a bit weak and could frequently inhibit Kay's sex life. Her unrealistic ideals about relationships could lead to disillusionment, and Kay Lenz may feel that real mortals are disappointing, and prefer her fantasies.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 12th house
Moon Conjunct Saturn
Moon Opposition Mars/Jupiter
Moon Conjunct Saturn/Asc.
Venus in Aries
Venus in 6th house
Venus Conjunct Mars
Venus Opposition Saturn
Venus Opposition Neptune
Venus Trine Pluto
Venus Opposition Saturn/Neptune
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