Katsuni
in Relationships

She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Katsuni rarely expresses her feelings openly and freely. Very often Katsuni's love for someone is expressed by her wish to help her, do something tangible to benefit her or serve her in some way.

It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Katsuni may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than she feels.

A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Katsuni difficult to live with. Katsuni needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.

Katsuni often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because she has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when Katsuni thinks she is being rational, her prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence her thoughts a great deal. Katsuni is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with her as well. Katsuni has good psychological insight into others.

She needs love, affection, nurturing and enjoys being pampered - all of which is fine, as long as Katsuni is willing to give as well as receive the attention and "babying". Katsuni has a rather childish dependency on loved ones, which can make her cling to them, or be very uncomfortable with any conflict that could conceivably lead to separation. Creating a loving family is certainly a challenge for Katsuni - one that can be enormously satisfying if she can achieve it, and a source of great sadness if she cannot.

Serious and emotionally reserved, Katsuni was probably never an exuberant, playful child, and she rarely expresses herself in a spontaneous, childlike manner. She is cautious about letting others get close to her and sometimes withdraws from people altogether. At times, Katsuni feels lonely or isolated, even when she is with people. Learning to appreciate her own company and find satisfying solitary activities is essential to Katsuni's emotional well-being.

Katsuni tends to be emotional inhibited when she is with others and therefore appear rather aloof. Although she may feel lonely, Katsuni is inclined to flee from crowds of people and to give the impression of needing protection.

Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Katsuni gives very selflessly and devotedly to those she loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon her. More compassionate than passionate, Katsuni may become romantically involved with a person because she or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.

She is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Katsuni feels she can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Katsuni idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.

Katsuni is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show her places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.

Moreover, Katsuni feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.

It is hard for Katsuni to express her feelings and emotions to other people. She may feel especially inhibited in matters of love relationships and could feel dissatisfied and unfulfilled. Katsuni tends to feel lonely, even when she is in the company of others.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Virgo

Moon in 3rd house

Moon Opposition Venus

Moon Conjunct Saturn

Moon Conjunct Saturn/N. Node

Venus in Pisces

Venus in 9th house

Venus Opposition Saturn/N. Node