challenges and difficulties
Capshaw both yearns for, and fears, being emotionally vulnerable with others and experiencing deep emotional intimacy. Trusting others and letting herself be known in a deep way does not come easily to Kate, and sexual inhibitions may result from this. Kate Capshaw is very self-protective and may be compulsively secretive. Learning to relinquish control in personal relationships, and to be completely open, is an important task for Capshaw.
Her childhood or her relationships with her parents was restrictive, unloving, or unhappy in ways that may prevent Kate from allowing other people to get close to her in later life. Kate Capshaw felt deprived in some manner, whether or not she actually was deprived in some way. Emotional separations or repression of her needs and feelings may typify her early life, at least as Capshaw remembers it. Forgiving her parents and/or letting go of any resentments she has about the limitations that she experienced early in her life is crucial. Also, Kate Capshaw needs to build her own solid foundation, and investing time and energy into her home, domestic relationships, and inner life can help Kate accomplish this.
Kate Capshaw tends to be shy, sensitive and stiff with her emotions and may have difficulty expressing her true feelings, even though her affection for someone is there. One of Capshaw's parents may have been too strict and unloving, and so Kate may fear close relationships.
Her physical vitality and mental energy tend to be somewhat low. For this reason Kate Capshaw should try to avoid any unnecessary emotional and physical stress and follow good health habits in order to maintain overall resistance to illness.
A deep thinker, Kate Capshaw has good powers of concentration. But Capshaw thinks slowly and takes her time making decisions, which is likely to be based on practical and economical methods. Having little to say, Kate Capshaw prefers to talk about serious or sad things.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Kate Capshaw instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Kate Capshaw needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Kate Capshaw has a great capacity for sympathy, tenderness, and caring, which is a gift that she is apt to over bestow at times. For balance, Kate Capshaw needs to foster mature self-discipline, self-control, and personal responsibility.
When under stress, she has a strong instinct to retreat back to the nest, to be a child again, or to become overwhelmed with feelings and longings to be taken care of. Also, she may encourage others to depend on her emotionally (and otherwise) to an unhealthy degree. Kate Capshaw needs to learn how to set limits and to turn off the flow of support when necessary.
It is in her marriage and other intimate, one-to-one relationships that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. She may see the qualities that she needs to develop more fully (described above) in her partner. It is important for Kate Capshaw to recognize, appreciate, and listen to the people in her life who express such attributes, as well as to develop them herself. Kate Capshaw has to put energy and attention into learning about others, and about herself through others.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Kate Capshaw back, or which she is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Going to extremes, willful rebelliousness and an instinctive anti-authoritarian attitude. Kate Capshaw seeks constant (and often purposeless) movement or change, involvement with unreliable people, and individual freedom at any cost.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Scorpio
Saturn in 4th house
Saturn Conjunct Sun/Venus
Saturn Conjunct Sun/Neptune
Saturn Conjunct Mercury/Mars
N. Node in Capricorn
N. Node in 7th house
N. Node Opposition Uranus