challenges and difficulties
Kajol Devgan is wary of becoming emotionally dependent on others, and may distance herself or deny her needs for relationships of closeness and intimacy so that she will not be vulnerable to rejection or abandonment. On the other hand, Kajol Mukherjee-Devgan may cling excessively or need constant reassurance from loved ones and family. Developing a deep, inner sense of security, as well as the ability to give and receive nurturing are important tasks for Kajol.
Her attitude toward religion, philosophy, and politics is very conservative and possibly narrow or rigid. On the one hand, Kajol Mukherjee-Devgan may believe in nothing that is speculative or intangible, requiring proof for any idea presented to her. Each idea is thoroughly and systematically examined. On the other hand, Kajol may tenaciously cling to her grand philosophical or metaphysical beliefs and opinions, refusing to modify them or to be open and receptive to others' insights and perspectives.
Her overall outlook on life is serious, and Kajol Mukherjee-Devgan may feel that life or God will punish her if she does not watch her step!
Kajol has an inner conflict between idealism, hope and faith in the future versus doubt and oppression due to limitations and practical realities. Kajol Mukherjee-Devgan needs to develop discipline and patience in order to achieve her aspirations. Kajol Devgan will grow by learning to accept frustration and to persevere in spite of obstacles.
Kajol Mukherjee-Devgan becomes tense and upset rather easily. She becomes irritated by the unwillingness of others to make changes. In her eagerness to see her inspirations materialize, Kajol Devgan is inclined to forego tact and diplomacy in favor of achieving her goals. Her occasional outbreaks of brusque, insensitive behavior often do more harm than good.
Kajol Mukherjee-Devgan has a desire to break away from tradition and to free herself from restrictive conditions. Somewhat inflexible and rigid, she may suddenly become inhibited before she sets out on her goals, which could be to Kajol Devgan's detriment.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Kajol Mukherjee-Devgan instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Kajol Mukherjee-Devgan needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
She is capable of withstanding outside influences and remaining constant and steady on her path, but when under stress Kajol Mukherjee-Devgan becomes downright obstinate and implacable, resisting any change no matter how necessary or desirable the change may be. Tenaciously trying to preserve the status quo and hold on to what she has, she is apt to ignore the subtle signals she receives about needing to do something differently, which often leads to a crisis.
Kajol Mukherjee-Devgan needs to learn the limits of her ability to control life, and to accept and even embrace change and loss of the familiar, in order to allow for new life and growth. "Letting go" is a major life lesson for her. Kajol Devgan also needs to develop a balanced attitude toward her appetites and desires, as Kajol Mukherjee-Devgan tends to overindulge and/or deny herself excessively.
It is in her relationships with others that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. There is a dynamic balance (or conflict) within Kajol Mukherjee-Devgan between acting spontaneously and being true to herself versus modifying herself or her behavior to suit others. Kajol Mukherjee-Devgan seesaws between being inordinately concerned with her self to being overly conciliatory and concerned with others' needs, rights, or opinions about her. Learning to act authentically and forthrightly regardless of possible consequences is Kajol Devgan's task.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Kajol Mukherjee-Devgan back, or which she is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
The need to be first all of the time and demonstrate an aggressive or bossy attitude, impatience or irritability; an over-eagerness to use force or violence to gain advantage and the tendency to resort to fighting or using confrontation too quickly.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Cancer
Saturn in 9th house
Jupiter Square Saturn
Saturn Square Uranus
Saturn Opposition Jupiter/Uranus
N. Node in Scorpio
N. Node in 1st house
N. Node Opposition Mars