challenges and difficulties
Haver both yearns for, and fears, being emotionally vulnerable to others and experiencing deep emotional intimacy. Trusting others and letting them get to know her intimately does not come easily to June, and sexual inhibitions may result from this. June Haver is very self-protective and may be compulsively secretive. Learning to relinquish control in personal relationships, and to be completely open, is an important task for Haver.
She is very conscientious, responsible, and concerned with her duty, her public image and reputation, and becoming a person of stature in the world. June Haver understands the need for hard work and careful planning in order to accomplish anything substantial and she is capable of much self-discipline and patience once she sets her sights on a goal.
But June Haver is very judgmental and hard on herself if she fails to attain success, and she can become dry, bitter, or cynical if the world does not recognize her efforts.
June Haver strives and struggles a great deal with her ideals or spiritual aspirations. She may go through periods of self-denial, asceticism, and in-depth study of religious philosophy and spiritual practices, or she may lose heart and become cynical about religious ideals; however, she can never quite divorce herself from her idealistic concerns.
She is not afraid of hard work and leaves no stone unturned in the pursuit of her objectives. June Haver has a strong desire to overcome any difficulties or obstacles in her way and will do this at all cost, even if it means having to use force.
Quite reserved and somewhat inhibited in her relationships with others, June Haver may feel that she is better off by herself. June feels that she does not fit in very well with people and she finds teamwork difficult.
Somewhat stubborn and self-willed, June Haver persists no matter what obstacles she has to overcome. She has great endurance and strength and she forces herself to work very hard. June Haver may be somewhat one-sided in the pursuit of her objectives.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which June Haver instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction June Haver needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
When under stress, June Haver is apt to shut off the flow of her emotions and ignore her needs and feelings in order to do what she perceives as her duty or simply what the practical realities of the situation dictate. This can lead to a certain rigidity and inflexibility. If overdone, self-control, self-discipline, or an exaggerated concern over what society, family or others expect of her, makes life more of a burden than an adventure.
Fostering her tender, caring, feminine, and nurturing aspects is an important step in June Haver's growth. June Haver needs to learn how to nourish and lovingly tend to both herself and others. Letting herself be taken care of sometimes is okay!
It is in her marriage and other intimate, one-to-one relationships that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. She may see the qualities that she needs to develop more fully (described above) in her partner. It is important for June Haver to recognize, appreciate, and listen to the people in her life who express such attributes, as well as to develop them herself. June Haver has to put energy and attention into learning about others, and about herself through others.
The following are specific activities that will support June Haver in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to Haver, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
June Haver's path to wholeness involves confronting her dark and hidden recesses, bringing them out into the open, and transforming herself in the process. Healing abilities develop as a result of Haver's willingness to experience and transform deep emotions such as grief, anger, and pain. Furthermore, bringing light to the darkness and pain in the world without becoming overwhelmed by it is a significant challenge for June.
June Haver has a strong desire to acquire a leading position in her community. Although she is very capable of assuming leadership, June also has a tendency to impose her will upon others. But in spite of that, she is likely to be successful.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Scorpio
Saturn in 10th house
Saturn Square Neptune
Saturn Opposition Mars/Pluto
Saturn Opposition Mars/N. Node
Saturn Opposition Uranus/Pluto
N. Node in Cancer
N. Node in 7th house
N. Node Conjunct Pluto
N. Node Opposition Mars/MC