Julia Stiles
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Julia Stiles denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Julia Stiles needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Julia Stiles also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.

Julia Stiles has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Stiles also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Julia, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind.

Julia has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate her personal life and relationships. She may feel that she cannot depend on her love partner to take care of her or perhaps Stiles cannot decide what she really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If her needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.

She is temperamental and impatient and can be very difficult to live with. Julia Stiles tends to respond with a temper tantrum (overt or subtle) if her desires are frustrated. Julia Stiles becomes very irritable and bad-tempered if she lacks vigorous physical activity or other outlets for her aggressive, feisty spirit.

Although she is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Julia Stiles also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances it all out. While hotheaded at times, she is usually a good sport.

Julia Stiles has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and she reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way. Her emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among her circle of friends, and people often seek Julia out for help, sympathy or advice. Julia Stiles is always willing to overlook others' faults, and she sometimes overdoes her charitableness.

Although Stiles gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), she also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Julia Stiles to rein in some of her more aggressive tendencies. This side of her is described below.

There is another side to Julia Stiles as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers her good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.

Julia Stiles often feels that she must do something or be something other than what she is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. She is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though she may appear cool or distant, Stiles actually cares very much about being included. Because she is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Julia Stiles to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises she may endure once she lets others really know her in an intimate, personal way. Her reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Julia Stiles becomes very attached to the few people she considers "real friends". Stiles can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if she views them as times to nourish herself and develop her own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.

Her health should be good and her recuperative powers are strong. Julia Stiles is able to express her feelings harmoniously and she considers herself wealthy either on material or spiritual planes. She is well liked and her relationships with others are congenial.

Julia Stiles has a strong sense of duty, is serious and tends to see everything on the dark side. Julia should guard against emotional inhibition and depression. She prefers to lead a secluded, modest and simple life.

She is inclined to identify duty and happiness with each other. Self-disciplined and realistic, Julia Stiles expects very little. Once she has found her mate, Julia Stiles will be faithful, self-sacrificing and strongly attached to her partner.

Julia Stiles has a good-natured disposition and an affectionate and cordial manner. Charming, optimistic and outgoing, she is warm and friendly to everyone she meets. Stiles is at peace with the world and want to share her feelings with her friends and acquaintances.

She is very intuitive and has the ability to make the right decisions guided by her inner feelings. Julia Stiles has a sense of honor and pride and is considerate of others. Others respect Stiles and are willing to help her, because she does not act out of petty motives.

Her will tends to be a bit weak and she seems to lack courage. Somewhat slow to take action, Julia Stiles thinks that she will fail because of her inadequacies as a person. She keeps her feelings to herself and should guard against depression and pessimism.

Julia Stiles has a cheerful temperament and a harmonious disposition. Because of her easy personality, Stiles gets along easily with others. Home and family relationships are precious to Julia and her home is likely to be large and lavish.

Emotionally, she is very vulnerable and tends to have her feelings hurt quite easily. She is very impressionable and inclined to suffer states of melancholy or depression. Julia Stiles may choose a profession where she is allowed to be her own boss.

Her love feelings and desires are easily aroused but she may find it difficult to sustain her romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Julia Stiles enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and she does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Julia wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.

Julia is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show her places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.

Moreover, Julia Stiles feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.

Julia Stiles is extremely amorous and it is difficult for her to go without romantic relationships for very long. When she is attracted to someone, Julia Stiles pursues her very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Being engaged in creative or artistic work can also satisfy her very strong desire for love and beauty.

Money is liable to be an issue in her life, not because she does not have it, but because Julia Stiles cannot or will not hold onto it. Julia Stiles has a freehanded, generous, open attitude and would prefer to spend and enjoy and partake in the pleasures of the moment than to save, discipline or budget herself. At Stiles' worst, she wants an easy ride and friends will often let Julia freeload because she is such an agreeable, friendly and pleasant sort. Alternatively, Stiles could let other people take advantage of her hospitality and tolerance.

Stiles also avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it is too much trouble or too petty. Julia Stiles just wants to have a good time.

Julia's pleasure-loving nature and her emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing her affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Julia Stiles is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times she is far more contained as described here. Because she is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Stiles is to being left out or unappreciated.

Feelings of loneliness, extreme shyness and/or the fear of rejection plague Julia Stiles and may well inhibit her from expressing warmth and affection in an open way. Denying herself pleasure, comfort, and "nice things" due to feelings of unworthiness can also limit the joy Julia allows herself. Heartache and a loss of love in her life - perhaps while quite young - will serve to either close her heart to love or cause her to deeply cherish the friends and love she receives from others. The saying that "true love is hard to find" is certainly true for Julia Stiles, but she will value it tremendously when it does come into her life.

The feeling that "there is not enough for me" may cause her to be very frugal and stingy with money as well.

She may be caught in a conflict between caution and optimism frequently, resulting in restlessness and discontentment. In love relationships, Julia Stiles could feel controlled, rejected or not accepted at times, and at other times experience great ease, happiness and content.

She is inclined to have sudden attachments to others and may fall in love quickly. Julia Stiles warms up to people very rapidly, even if she sees them only once. In fact, Julia probably prefers a lot of changes in her relationships.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 6th house

Moon Square Venus

Moon Square Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter

Moon Square Jupiter

Moon aspects Mars and Saturn

Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Moon Square Saturn

Moon Opposition Sun/Jupiter

Moon Opposition Sun/Saturn

Moon Conjunct Venus/Saturn

Moon Opposition Venus/Jupiter

Moon Opposition Mars/Jupiter

Moon Opposition Mars/Saturn

Moon Opposition Jupiter/MC

Moon Opposition Saturn/MC

Venus in Aries

Venus in 9th house

Venus Conjunct Mars

Venus Opposition Jupiter

Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Venus Opposition Saturn

Venus Opposition Jupiter/Saturn

Venus Opposition Uranus/N. Node