Judd Nelson in Relationships
Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Judd Nelson only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Nelson.
Judd has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Judd Nelson has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Judd Nelson to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Judd Nelson has a great deal of emotional depth.
Though he yearns for close relationships, Judd Nelson often closes himself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know him. Nelson is very wholehearted in his feelings and responses to people, and he wants all or nothing from the people he cares for.
He is a sensitive soul and a dreamer who is very much attuned to the world of imagination and fantasy. Judd Nelson often retreats into his own inner world in order to escape the harshness of everyday living in the "real world". Gentle and often rather passive as well, he will not fight or assert himself, even when he needs to. Judd Nelson is very sympathetic and somewhat naive emotionally and must guard against being taken advantage of.
Judd Nelson has a very attractive personality and loves to socialize. Because of this he is very popular, especially with the opposite sex. Judd Nelson also has a sense of beauty and may be interested in some kind of artistic work or hobby.
Judd Nelson possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy and consideration, and has a strong desire to please and understand his love partner. Because he values harmony so highly, Judd Nelson will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in his relationships. Judd does not like to dwell on controversial or emotional subjects and often tries to "smooth things over" or "sweep them under the rug".
In love relationships, Judd Nelson wants an intellectual peer, an equal and a friend. He is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy and subtlety. Judd Nelson appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with coarseness or bluntness in a person.
Judd Nelson craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Judd loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Nelson.
He needs a lot of emotional and romantic stimulation, and may not be very interested in having just one mate or love partner. Variety, excitement, spontaneity, and freedom are quite important to Judd, and "settling down" is not that appealing. Judd Nelson tends to surround himself with unusual, creative, unconventional people that keep his life lively. Music or dancing or both play an important part in Nelson's life.
He is creative and ingenious and will put deep, feeling energy into his creations. But his emotional state is easily upset and Nelson can be a fanatic in love relationships. Judd Nelson tends to be possessive and he has such intense needs that disappointments may be unavoidable.
Judd Nelson tends to be a bit envious and is inclined to begrudge other people. Quite suspicious, he may misconceive the relationships or associations of others, and become dissatisfied himself. Judd could also be subject to improper liaisons.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 8th house
Moon Conjunct Neptune
Moon Conjunct Sun/Venus
Venus in Libra
Venus in 8th house
Venus Sextile Uranus
Venus Conjunct Sun/Pluto
Venus Conjunct Neptune/N. Node
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