challenges and difficulties
Trohman both yearns for, and fears, being emotionally vulnerable with others and experiencing deep emotional intimacy. Trusting others and letting himself be known in a deep way does not come easily to Joe, and sexual inhibitions may result from this. Joe Trohman is very self-protective and may be compulsively secretive. Learning to relinquish control in personal relationships, and to be completely open, is an important task for Trohman.
He may have nebulous but ever-present guilt and fears that are difficult to pinpoint or eradicate. It is as if Joe Trohman does not trust Life itself, and is always seeking ways to defend himself from its dangers and its unknowns. Joe Trohman must learn to overcome his ingrained habit of discouragement and anxiety, and to see the world more as a friendly place than as a treacherous one.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Joe Trohman instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Joe Trohman needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Joe Trohman needs to take what he has learned (either through formal education or his own questing and life experience) and share it with others, communicate it or express it in a way that can benefit others. Knowledge and understanding, which does not enhance either Joe's quality of life or that of persons in his world, is of little real value. Putting Trohman's understanding, philosophy, and convictions into practice in his daily relationships, and in the multiple choices he makes every day, will enable Joe Trohman to really test his belief system and discover more about life.
When under stress, Joe Trohman is apt to seek refuge in imagining that the grass is greener elsewhere, rather than working with what is at hand. Joe Trohman needs to cultivate his ability to live in the present!
It is in his marriage and other intimate, one-to-one relationships that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. He may see the qualities that he needs to develop more fully (described above) in his partner. It is important for Joe Trohman to recognize, appreciate, and listen to the people in his life who express such attributes, as well as to develop them himself. Joe Trohman has to put energy and attention into learning about others, and about himself through others.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Joe Trohman back, or which he is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Being bound to past events and experiences because of his desire to belong, deep attachments to family and the familiar (even if they are neither nourishing nor helpful), the desire to nurture or be nurtured by others, and a strong resistance to cutting the umbilical cord.
Joe Trohman tends to have far-reaching associations and has a strong desire to be involved with people of high society. He is likely to achieve great success through joint ventures with others and could do well in some political activity.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Scorpio
Saturn in 12th house
N. Node in Gemini
N. Node in 7th house
N. Node Opposition Moon
N. Node Opposition Jupiter/Pluto