approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Jonne Aaron's basic stance toward life, the way others see him, the way Jonne Aaron comes across, the face he shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Jonne Aaron - his real motivation, which describes the kind of person he is at heart and where his true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Jonne Aaron" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Jonne Aaron a little better. This page describes the disguise Liimatainen wears, his role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
He is a natural diplomat, reasonable, tolerant, fair, always willing to listen to varying viewpoints, and prepared to see the other side of an issue. Even if he strongly disagrees with someone, Jonne Aaron will try to find points of similarity and agreement rather than emphasizing the differences. He often avoids taking an extreme or one-sided stance on anything. Jonne Aaron has a strong desire for harmonious and pleasant relationships, and revels in a spirit of cooperation, compromise, friendship, and fairness. Jonne Aaron very much wants to be liked and because of his need for approval and acceptance, Liimatainen is easily influenced by others' opinions, especially those expressed by the young. He so much wants to please that often Jonne Aaron will suppress his own intense or unpleasant feelings in order to avoid offending others. Sometimes Liimatainen's politeness is interpreted as being phony or wishy-washy.
His need to create harmony extends to his physical environment and personal appearance as well. Jonne Aaron appreciates beauty and has a natural sense of balance, symmetry, and proportion. He does everything in good taste, with a sense of style and art. From his home furnishings to his choice of clothing, everything must be aesthetically appealing, not simply functional or utilitarian.
He also feels that relationships are a form of art - one that Liimatainen is especially interested in and usually quite skilled at, for Jonne Aaron possesses tact and acute awareness of other people. Marriage is very significant to him and finding the right person to share his life with is extremely important. Being part of a close relationship seems natural to Jonne Aaron - he is not an independent loner. Having a partner increases his self-confidence. Jonne Aaron does have a tendency, however, to become overly dependent on his partner and perhaps not to develop a clearly defined identity outside of the relationship. Finding the balance between being himself and blending and uniting with another is a challenge for Jonne Aaron.
Others see Jonne Aaron as an agreeable, smooth, harmonious, and "nice" person. Though there may be much more to him, this is the sort of face Liimatainen shows to the world. He possesses personal charm and an understated, non-combative manner. His motto could be "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar" for Jonne Aaron usually adopts a friendly, cooperative approach rather than a strong, forceful, I'm-going-to-conquer-the-world attitude.
Though personable and pleasant, Jonne Aaron also comes across as controlled and even somber or heavy at times. While he very much wants to participate socially, it is hard for Jonne Aaron to let go and express himself in a free, spontaneous, uncensored way. He is very sincere, conscientious, and concerned about how his behavior affects other people, and in fact tends to be overly responsible. Jonne Aaron takes personal commitments very much to heart and thus comes across as very trustworthy, albeit a bit overly serious, to others.
He is extremely willful, but he often achieves his desires in a quiet, secretive, or manipulative way. He may be intensely charismatic and wield considerable influence over others, or he may be attracted to similarly powerful, fascinating personalities. Jonne Aaron tends to go to extremes in whatever he does, to be compulsive, and he is driven by a sense of mission or destiny. Jonne Aaron does not take anything at face value and is always digging beneath the surface for the deeper meaning or real motivations of others.
Jonne Aaron has a sweet, appealing demeanor and seems instinctively to grasp the concept that "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar". His personal brand of charm is usually quite winning. Jonne Aaron coaxes rather than coerces. However, if he does not get what he wants, Jonne Aaron is likely to resort to insincere flattery, wheedling, whining or pouting rather than stating directly what he needs, or doing it for himself. Liimatainen seems to need others' approval first.
Jonne Aaron tends to blend in with, and assume the characteristics of those around him, and may thus not make a powerful individual statement of his own. He may project an aura of glamour or "make-believe" and enjoy donning different personalities at different times.
Jonne Aaron seems to enjoy projecting a different image of himself to others, giving them a false impression of himself. He is inclined to associate with odd and peculiar people and is likely to have very strange romantic relationships.
Jonne Aaron tends to be extremely hard on himself and others. He may have been brought up under difficult circumstances and now feels that life is very tough. Jonne Aaron does his duty, expects the same of others, and has no pity for anyone.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn Conjunct Ascendant in Libra
Pluto Conjunct Asc.
Venus Sextile Asc.
Neptune Sextile Asc.
Asc. Conjunct Venus/Neptune
Asc. Conjunct Saturn/Pluto