Jon Finch
in Relationships
Jon Finch has frequent emotional outbursts due to his fiery temper and emotional impulsiveness. Finch expresses himself very directly and honestly and no one has to guess what his true feelings are. However, Jon Finch dislikes showing any personal weakness or his need for support, comfort and nurturing. He is often impatient with himself and others. Jon abhors emotional dependency and dislikes "complainers".
Jon Finch inspires others to take positive action in their lives through his own enthusiasm and eagerness to meet life's challenges, and he is attracted to people who are adventurous, courageous and independent. Jon is rather bossy but does not like to be with people that he can boss around too much. He enjoys a good fight sometimes. Relationships that are built on mutual respect and emotional freedom are ideal for Finch.
Jon Finch becomes very cross if he lacks vigorous physical activity. Finch feels his best if he frequently "does battle" on the tennis or racquetball court (or engages in another form of competitive sport).
Finch gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through his involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for him. Jon Finch makes friends his family, and he feels a close kinship to people who share some ideals or beliefs that he holds dear. Jon Finch needs close relationships with people outside of his immediate family.
Jon Finch genuinely appreciates and understands women, and is likely to have many female friends, a network of women who love and support him. It is relatively easy for Jon Finch to attract companionship and affection, and there will never be a lack of such relationships in his life. Children are very important to Finch also.
Highly sensitive and rather easily taken in, Jon Finch needs to beware of deceiving himself and allowing others to take advantage of his impressionability or gentleness. Daydreaming, fantasizing or other forms of imaginative, escapist behavior (such as watching television excessively or living his life through romance novels) could be something of an addiction for Finch. Jon Finch tends to confuse images with reality and needs to learn to be more circumspect and discriminating. Disenchantment with women and close relationships could ensue as a result.
Jon has intense desires and feelings and his personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well. Jon Finch has powerful magnetic relationships with those he cares about, and he could become emotionally obsessed by another person. His feelings can become so urgent and compelling that he behaves irrationally. Jon Finch undergoes periodic emotional upheavals and purging when he must break all ties with the past and begin anew.
Jon Finch has a great interest in everything and everyone around him and is constantly looking for people with whom he can establish deep inner relationships. His judgments are based on his personal feelings and he has a strong need to be with others.
He is likely to be noted for his good looks and good taste in clothes. Jon Finch is able to attract and influence others because he is so pleasant and so sincere in his approach. Having an innate parental instinct, Finch also is strongly attached to his home and family.
He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Jon Finch values friendship very highly and in fact, he is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Jon desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Finch, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Jon Finch appreciates relationships in which his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.
Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Jon Finch very happy. Jon wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Jon Finch may be "married to" his work - namely he may be more involved in his career than in his private life. Finch is a natural host or diplomat.
It is absolutely essential for Jon Finch not to deceive himself when it comes to love relationships, romance, or the true nature of others. Jon tends to be in love with love, and can be incredibly naive and easily seduced. Confusion, disappointments, and regrettable mistakes in both emotional and financial matters may ensue. On the other hand, it is also possible that Jon Finch will use his attractiveness or charm to deceive others. Clarity, directness, honesty and realism regarding romantic relationships and people in general need to be developed.
Jon Finch tends to think a lot about art and beauty as well as matters of love relationships and is content with the way things are in his life. He is comfortable in talking to someone about his feelings toward them. Jon Finch also could find artistic endeavors very rewarding.
He is likely to have very strange experiences in love relationships. Jon Finch is inclined to fantasize a lot about love and seems to admire the unattainable. Strongly attracted to the spiritual dimensions of life, he may pursue the study of mystical and occult subjects.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Aries
Moon in 11th house
Moon Sextile Venus
Moon Quincunx Neptune
Moon Square Pluto
Moon Conjunct Mercury/Asc.
Moon Conjunct Venus/Asc.
Venus in Aquarius
Venus in 10th house
Venus Quincunx Neptune
Venus Conjunct Mercury/MC
Venus Opposition Neptune/Pluto
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