Jon Dough
in Relationships
Jon does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and he is often unaware of his own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder him and make him very uncomfortable. Jon Dough would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but he tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe his own or others' inner depths.
Jon Dough avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.
He needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom he can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Dough. The strong, silent partner is not for him.
Jon has strong attachments to his past, the place where he grew up, his heritage and family traditions. In fact, Jon Dough may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that he learned as a child. Dough's ties to his mother are very strong and Jon also seeks nurturing and protection from his spouse and other family members.
Jon Dough has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and he reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way. His emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among his circle of friends, and people often seek Jon out for help, sympathy or advice. Jon Dough is always willing to overlook others' faults, and he sometimes overdoes his charitableness.
There is another side to Jon Dough as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.
Jon Dough has an inner poise and balance that enables him to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. He maintains his perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Dough would react more intensely. Jon is quietly supportive and faithful to his friends and loved ones.
In addition to Jon's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, he has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Jon Dough craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Dough rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. His freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
Jon Dough craves excitement, change and discovery, and cannot tolerate a routine or lifestyle that offers little in the way of surprise or challenge. Excitable, spontaneous and enthusiastic about anything new, he may be perceived by others as being too impulsive, especially in personal relationships. It is not easy for Jon Dough to make or keep commitments, since he does not know how he will be feeling from one day to the next. Emotional freedom is very important to Dough. His domestic life may be very unstable - but Dough likes it that way.
In love relationships, Jon Dough desires a deep, intense and passionate union with his beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Jon "marries" the person he loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Dough can be very demanding of his love partner. Jon Dough tends to be somewhat suspicious of his partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If he is ever betrayed, Jon Dough is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as he once loved. He is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.
Jon is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show him places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.
Moreover, Jon Dough feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.
He is very romantic, idealistic and imaginative about love relationships. Jon Dough yearns for his "true love" or "soul mate" and may become disappointed in those who never quite live up to his dream image of the perfect lover. Dough frequently fantasizes about love and often falls in love with someone he can only love from afar. He may avoid making a definite personal commitment. Gentle and sensitive, Jon Dough does not like to be approached in a very direct or aggressive manner. He is attracted to those with artistic or mystical inclinations.
Others are drawn to Dough because of his affable, social and appealing disposition, and he is likely to have many pleasant and friendly relationships. Jon Dough also has strong artistic inclinations and may consider a creative field as a profession or hobby.
His romantic relationships are inclined to be rather stressed. Jon Dough longs for new experiences on one hand, but feels restricted or thwarted by circumstances on the other. Dough tends to fight against limitations and may frequently be irritated by the conduct of others.
Jon does not hold back with his charms and shows everyone what he has to offer. His personality is quite dazzling and enables Jon Dough to attract many people. His need for affection is strong; and Dough will probably have very intense love relationships.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Gemini
Moon in 4th house
Moon Square Jupiter
Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Moon Trine Saturn
Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus
Moon Square Uranus
Venus in Scorpio
Venus in 9th house
Venus Conjunct Neptune
Venus Conjunct Sun/MC
Venus Conjunct Saturn/Uranus
Venus Conjunct Pluto/Asc.
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