John Paul Jones challenges and difficulties
Jones fears of becoming emotionally dependent upon others, and may distance himself or deny his needs for relationships of closeness and intimacy so that he will not be vulnerable to rejection or abandonment. On the other hand, John Paul Jones may cling excessively or need constant reassurance from loved ones and family. Developing a deep, inner sense of security, as well as the ability to give and receive nurturing are important tasks for John Paul.
John Paul Jones takes his commitments to others very seriously, especially in close one-to-one relationships. His strong sense of responsibility to the other person makes Jones a trustworthy and dedicated partner, but he often feels that marriage or any binding commitment between him and another person is too restrictive and burdensome, and thus seeks to avoid it. Close relationships may be more work than pleasure for John Paul Jones and it may seem that he is always "working on" his marriage rather than enjoying it. However, Jones will persevere and ultimately grow through the process.
John Paul has an inner conflict between idealism, hope, and faith in the future versus doubt and oppression by limitations and practical realities. John Paul Jones needs to develop discipline and patience in order to achieve his aspirations. Jones will grow by learning to accept frustration and to persevere in spite of obstacles.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which John Paul Jones instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction John Paul Jones needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
When under stress, John Paul Jones is apt to shut off the flow of his emotions and ignore his needs and feelings in order to do what he perceives as his duty or simply what the practical realities of the situation dictate. This can lead to a certain rigidity and inflexibility. If overdone, self-control, self-discipline, or an exaggerated concern over what society, family or others expect of him, makes life more of a burden than an adventure.
Fostering his tender, caring, feminine, and nurturing aspects is an important step in John Paul Jones' growth. John Paul Jones needs to learn how to nourish and lovingly tend to both himself and others. Letting himself be taken care of sometimes is okay!
It is in his work and his relationships with co-workers, employers, and employees that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Integrating the qualities described above into Jones' work and daily routine will lead to greater satisfaction, improved health, and personal growth.
Jones always looks to establish relationships with groups or associations and has the ability to blend in unobtrusively. John Paul Jones has a way of integrating others needs and feelings, at the same time realizing and considering the proceedings of the association.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Cancer
Saturn in 7th house
Jupiter Square Saturn
N. Node in Cancer
N. Node in 6th house
N. Node Opposition Moon/Mercury
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