John Major
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. John Major denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". John Major needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. John Major also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.

John Major has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, John sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. John Major is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he comes across. John wears his heart on his sleeves and cannot hide his emotions.

John Major feels that little, daily acts of caring and thoughtfulness are essential to the happiness and success of relationships and he knows how to make others feel accepted, loved and cherished. He enjoys good relationships with women.

Major can be hard to get close to. Subconsciously he may feel that too much closeness in his relationships will interfere with doing what he needs to do and being his own person, so John Major puts up subtle walls and distances himself when someone begins to want more of him than he can comfortably give. However, Major may cut off sources of emotional nourishment and support that way, and end up feeling alone and lonely. John Major might even develop digestive problems. Overcoming his fear of intimacy, while at the same time affirming and acting on his autonomous needs, is the challenge he faces.

Powerful and complex emotions stir John Major, and his emotional life and closest personal relationships are liable to be tumultuous until John does some deep soul searching. Buried feelings and memories that he does not want to deal with may surface at unexpected times. Holding in fears, secrets or "taboo" thoughts and feelings can only intensify them, and John Major needs to share them with someone who is sympathetic, trustworthy and fairly objective. Ridding himself of emotional compulsions and deeply embedded patterns that do not serve him can be tremendously liberating if John Major is willing to do the necessary inner house cleaning.

He is inclined to be somewhat gloomy, is easily offended, and he tries to suppress the jealousy he may feel. John Major may have been brought up to sacrifice and forego a lot of things, making him a bit hard and unyielding in later life.

In love relationships, John Major is steadfast and loyal, especially if he has a warm, demonstrative partner. He is very sensual in nature and craves plenty of touching and physical affection. John enjoys being pampered with a good meal, a loving massage or other sensual delights. He is a wonderful lover who is very attentive to the comfort and enjoyment of his loved one. John Major responds intensely to beauty and physical appearance, and the physical attractiveness of his partner is very important to him.

Beautiful, elegant and harmonious surroundings are very important to John Major, and he has an innate sense of style, design and form. Socially as well good form and politeness are important to Major and he instinctively avoids crudeness and dissonance.

He enjoys talking about love, relationships, art and the beautiful side of life. John Major appreciates artistic people.

John Major experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and he may feel that he has little choice or control over his desires. John Major has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. His love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in his relationships. On the positive side, John Major can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by his deeply felt love.

John Major tends to suppress his feelings and he approaches other people with great reserve. He may feel lonesome, but unable to bridge the gap between him and others. But once John Major enters a relationship, he will be faithful and steady in his feelings for his partner.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 1st house

Moon Trine Venus

Moon Quincunx Saturn

Moon Quincunx Pluto

Moon Opposition Saturn/Pluto

Venus in Taurus

Venus in 3rd house

Venus Square Pluto

Venus Conjunct Sun/Saturn