John Cusack
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for John Cusack only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Cusack.

John has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. John Cusack has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for John Cusack to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. John Cusack has a great deal of emotional depth.

He is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for his belongings give John Cusack a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to him. Antiques or things with sentimental value from John's past are especially dear to him.

John Cusack may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of his immediate circle.

His emotional attitudes and instincts tend to be quite liberal. John Cusack does not want to be caged or dictated to, and he feels everyone is entitled to do as they please in their personal and emotional affairs. Cusack tends to surround himself with people who are unusual, creative, open-minded, unpredictable, restless, and changeable, and his relationships, with women in particular, may be somewhat unstable as a result. However, John Cusack enjoys an element of surprise and unpredictability.

He is a sensitive soul and a dreamer who is very much attuned to the world of imagination and fantasy. John Cusack often retreats into his own inner world in order to escape the harshness of everyday living in the "real world". Gentle and often rather passive as well, he will not fight or assert himself, even when he needs to. John Cusack is very sympathetic and somewhat naive emotionally and must guard against being taken advantage of.

John has very deep feelings and profound attachments to people he cares about. His relationships to his mother, sisters, daughters, and other females in his life are apt to be incredibly close and intense. John Cusack may be easily manipulated too, when it comes to one of these important relationships, because he is so emotionally invested in it.

John Cusack has a strong sense of duty, is serious and tends to see everything on the dark side. John should guard against emotional inhibition and depression. He prefers to lead a secluded, modest and simple life.

In a love relationship, John Cusack is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. John likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps him guessing and John Cusack becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises him. It is very important to John Cusack's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. John Cusack needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Cusack finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.

John is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show Cusack places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.

Also, John Cusack feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.

In love relationships and romance, it is important for John Cusack to be able to deeply respect his partner. John looks beyond the superficial qualities to see their inner worth (or lack thereof), before he lets himself really fall for someone. In fact, too much glamour or flashiness is something of a turn-off to him. John Cusack is capable of mature, lasting loving relationships and seeks a mate who is deep, loyal, and committed. He may be drawn to someone older than him.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 2nd house

Moon Sextile Uranus

Moon Conjunct Neptune

Moon Sextile Pluto

Moon Opposition Sun/Saturn

Venus in Gemini

Venus in 9th house

Venus Sextile Saturn