John Cage
in Relationships
John does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and he is often unaware of his own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder him and make him very uncomfortable. John Cage would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but he tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe his own or others' inner depths.
John Cage avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.
He needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom he can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Cage. The strong, silent partner is not for him.
Cage works well with the public and has an instinct for what the public wants and will respond to. Having a "nest" is not especially important to John, and he may invest more of his emotional energy into his career or public life than in his private life. Providing and caring for others, in a professional capacity is very likely.
John has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate his personal life and relationships. He may feel that he cannot depend on his love partner to take care of him or perhaps Cage cannot decide what he really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If his needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.
His emotions are very intense, but often hidden. Like a volcano, one minute John Cage seems quite peaceful and the next, he is exploding with great force and unexpected fury. The intensity of his reactions often surprises even him. John has tremendous zeal and tends to be an emotional fanatic about things he cares about. His feelings and desires can be so compelling that he does things against his better judgment and reason. Cage can also be very manipulative, in a subtle way. His personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well.
John has an instinctive understanding of other people and is very sympathetic toward them. Relationships are very important to John Cage, and he is likely to feel a strong inner bond with many of his friends.
He is quietly devoted and faithful to his loved ones and often becomes subservient to his love partner. John Cage is more comfortable showing his love by doing or making something for his loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. He is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. John Cage also underestimates his attractiveness and lovability and doubts his own worthiness of love and appreciation.
Cage is very much aware of his personal appearance, attractiveness, and charm, and he can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, John Cage is concerned with getting along with others and he has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. John uses tact or charm to get what he wants rather than intense effort or force. His desire for love and affection colors everything John Cage does.
John Cage is extremely amorous and it is difficult for him to go without romantic relationships for very long. When he is attracted to someone, John Cage pursues her very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Being engaged in creative or artistic work can also satisfy his very strong desire for love and beauty.
Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to John Cage in love relationships. He is cautious about giving his heart away but true to the one who does win his love. His tastes are simple, even austere, and he does not appreciate frivolity. Cage is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in his or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest John Cage at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for him with time.
When it comes to love relationships, Cage is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, John Cage has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if John acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.
He is open and progressive in his attitude towards love relationships and romance, and spontaneous and free in the way he expresses his love. John Cage is always willing to experiment and try anything new that his partner suggests, and he enjoys being surprised. A relationship in which both John and his partner have a good deal of freedom and independence will hold Cage's interest much more than a safe, predictable one.
John Cage experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and he may feel that he has little choice or control over his desires. John Cage has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. His love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in his relationships. On the positive side, John Cage can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by his deeply felt love.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Gemini
Moon in 10th house
Moon Square Venus
Moon Conjunct Pluto
Moon Conjunct N. Node/Asc.
Venus in Virgo
Venus in 1st house
Venus Conjunct Mars
Venus Trine Saturn
Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus
Venus Trine Uranus
Venus Square Pluto
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