Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. John Slattery denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". John Slattery needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. John Slattery also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.
John Slattery often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when Slattery thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. John is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. John Slattery has good psychological insight into others.
He is not afraid to take chances and follow his ambitions with great determination and courage. A bit impatient and quick tempered, Slattery can be uncompromising at times. John Slattery also is quite hot-blooded and passionate with a strong desire for marriage.
John Slattery possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy and consideration, and has a strong desire to please and understand his love partner. Because he values harmony so highly, John Slattery will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in his relationships. John does not like to dwell on controversial or emotional subjects and often tries to "smooth things over" or "sweep them under the rug".
In love relationships, John Slattery wants an intellectual peer, an equal and a friend. He is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy and subtlety. John Slattery appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with coarseness or bluntness in a person.
Slattery is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. John Slattery thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.
Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to John Slattery in love relationships. He is cautious about giving his heart away but true to the one who does win his love. His tastes are simple, even austere, and he does not appreciate frivolity. Slattery is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in his or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest John Slattery at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for him with time.
John Slattery is extremely sensitive to his surroundings and could feel highly elated one minute and quite down the next. Slattery tends to avoid the truth about himself and his relationships and could have some strange or peculiar experiences in love relationships.
John does not hold back with his charms and shows everyone what he has to offer. His personality is quite dazzling and enables John Slattery to attract many people. His need for affection is strong; and Slattery will probably have very intense love relationships.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Capricorn
Moon in 3rd house
Moon Opposition Sun/Mars
Venus in Libra
Venus in 11th house
Venus Trine Saturn
Venus Conjunct Uranus/Neptune
Venus Conjunct Pluto/Asc.