challenges and difficulties
Joey Silvera takes his personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort, and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing. He may feel that relationships in general require more of him than they are worth, and Joey enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Joey Silvera also fears entrapment in close relationships.
Joey Silvera takes his commitments to others very seriously, especially in close one-to-one relationships. His strong sense of responsibility to the other person makes Silvera a trustworthy and dedicated partner, but he often feels that marriage or any binding commitment between him and another person is too restrictive and burdensome, and thus seeks to avoid it. Close relationships may be more work than pleasure for Joey Silvera and it may seem that he is always "working on" his marriage rather than enjoying it. However, Silvera will persevere and ultimately grow through the process.
Joey Silvera becomes tense and upset rather easily. He becomes irritated by the unwillingness of others to make changes. In his eagerness to see his inspirations materialize, Silvera is inclined to forego tact and diplomacy in favor of achieving his goals. His occasional outbreaks of brusque, insensitive behavior often do more harm than good.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Joey Silvera instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Joey Silvera needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Cultivating the qualities of empathy, gentleness, and compassion will help counterbalance Silvera's deeply ingrained perfectionism and critical nature. When under stress, he is apt to try to rigorously analyze and focus on what needs to be corrected or improved, and he can easily become problem-oriented and lose sight of the big picture.
Joey Silvera has to learn to relax and surrender to the flow of events without having to figure everything out all the time. He should let his feelings and intuitions flow more freely, be more flexible and fluid, use his imagination and let his dreams emerge!
It is deep within himself, as Joey Silvera faces his own demons, fears, and struggles - those aspects of life that are not easily or readily shared, those parts of his life that Joey Silvera keeps hidden from public view where he is most likely to wrestle with these issues.
The qualities described above can also be beneficially channeled into some sort of charitable work, altruistic service or ministering to people in need.
Joey Silvera tends to be fascinated by new and obscure things and may be strongly attracted to the occult. He may contribute to spontaneous forming of groups and could gain spiritual enlightenment together with other people.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 7th house
Saturn Square Uranus
N. Node in Pisces
N. Node in 12th house
N. Node Opposition Uranus/Neptune