challenges and difficulties
Heatherton fears of becoming emotionally dependent upon others, and may distance herself or deny her needs for relationships of closeness and intimacy so that she will not be vulnerable to rejection or abandonment. On the other hand, Joey Heatherton may cling excessively or need constant reassurance from loved ones and family. Developing a deep, inner sense of security, as well as the ability to give and receive nurturing are important tasks for Joey.
Fear of the unknown, of change, and/or of death may plague Joey. She strongly resists changes and transitions rather than greeting them with curiosity or a spirit of adventure, which makes them much harder for her.
On another level entirely, Joey Heatherton is very careful about joining forces, and especially her material resources, with others. Heatherton wants to keep her own and other people's property and assets very distinct.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Joey Heatherton instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Joey Heatherton needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
When under stress, Joey Heatherton is apt to shut off the flow of her emotions and ignore her needs and feelings in order to do what she perceives as her duty or simply what the practical realities of the situation dictate. This can lead to a certain rigidity and inflexibility. If overdone, self-control, self-discipline, or an exaggerated concern over what society, family or others expect of her, makes life more of a burden than an adventure.
Fostering her tender, caring, feminine, and nurturing aspects is an important step in Joey Heatherton's growth. Joey Heatherton needs to learn how to nourish and lovingly tend to both herself and others. Letting herself be taken care of sometimes is okay!
It is in relationships that are more than superficial or casual - in particular in cases where Joey Heatherton has merged emotionally, legally, or financially with another person - that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Heatherton will see these issues arise in close partnerships of any kind, especially when there is a mutual dependency involved. Dealing with in-laws, inheritances, and legal matters involving joint custody, shared assets, and resources is also a part of this.
Heatherton co-operate well with others and has the ability to give and receive stimulating suggestions. Joey Heatherton is always receptive to new ideas and ready for spontaneous group efforts. She seems to have an instant recall of things and is likely to act just as quickly.
She is gay and cheerful in the company of others and happy to be with them. Joey Heatherton is fond of telling jokes and is likely to entertain everyone. Her relationships with others are inclined to be for a common purpose.
Joey likes to be on the go constantly and tends to have a hectic family life. She knows how to eliminate competition, but should guard against rising to the top in her position at the expense of other people.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Cancer
Saturn in 8th house
N. Node in Cancer
N. Node in 8th house
N. Node Conjunct Mercury/Uranus
N. Node Conjunct Jupiter/Uranus
N. Node Conjunct Uranus/MC