challenges and difficulties
Joel Silver takes his personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing experience. He may feel that relationships in general require more of him than they are worth, and Joel enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Joel Silver also fears entrapment in close relationships.
Joel Silver has a mature, disciplined, serious attitude toward life that colors everything he does. Caution and realism are his virtues though Joel limits himself at times by being too careful, shy or fearful, not believing in himself enough, or lacking the required assertiveness. Others find Joel Silver difficult to get to know intimately, as Silver tends to distance himself from them or to outwardly adopt a rather stern, "adult" demeanor.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Joel Silver instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Joel Silver needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Joel Silver's path lies in cultivating idealism and humanitarian feelings, being concerned with how Silver's actions impact the world at large, perhaps becoming more aware of the social implications of Silver's life style and personal choices or becoming active politically. Participating in organizations that support Silver's ideals is one way to do this.
When under stress he is likely to become overly focused on himself and his own little world.
Instead of "how will this benefit or hurt me?" Silver's focus needs to shift to "how will this affect us all?".
Ideally, Joel Silver needs to strike a balance between doing for himself and doing for others, by discovering how Silver's unique gifts can benefit others.
The arena he is most likely to wrestle with these issues is in playful self-expression, games or sports, and creativity. Joel Silver should try to develop any artistic, expressive, creative potentials he feels he possesses, utilizing the qualities described above.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Joel Silver back, or which he is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Excessive thinking, rationalizing or talking, the overuse or misuse of Silver's intellectual abilities and the tendency to allow his energy to be dissipated in trivial activities.
Staying in relationships with domineering, controlling, abusive people or being manipulative. Joel sometimes abuses his own power to use others to his own selfish ends.
Joel Silver often tends to feel sad and may sympathize with people who are "in the same boat". He is likely to cling to old things and wants to pass on his traditions.
He is very obliging and always looks for relationships with other people. Joel Silver tends to really feel at home with his family or in groups or associations that he may join. Joel has a strong desire to feel at one with his community.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 1st house
N. Node in Aquarius
N. Node in 5th house
N. Node Opposition Mercury
N. Node Opposition Pluto
N. Node Opposition Saturn/MC
N. Node Opposition Asc./MC