challenges and difficulties
Blondell fears of becoming emotionally dependent upon others, and may distance herself or deny her needs for relationships of closeness and intimacy so that she will not be vulnerable to rejection or abandonment. On the other hand, Joan Blondell may cling excessively or need constant reassurance from loved ones and family. Developing a deep, inner sense of security, as well as the ability to give and receive nurturing are important tasks for Joan.
She is serious-minded and may have difficulty making light social conversation or participating in friendly, personal interchanges.
Joan Blondell tries to be strictly accurate and she is critical of people who exaggerate or talk on subjects they really know little about. Blondell withholds her thoughts and opinions until she has thought everything through quite thoroughly, and sometimes Joan's silence discomforts others.
Her mental concentration is very good but her breadth of understanding may not be.
She is suspicious of groups, crowds, and social organizations. Blondell is quick to pick up on social charades and insincerity and avoids the limelight and glamour. Joan Blondell is direct and to the point in speech and manner, stubborn and inflexible, and often unwilling to communicate her innermost feelings and thoughts.
Around others Blondell is somewhat humble and shy and prefer to be by herself. Joan Blondell tends to limit her relationships with others and associates only with like-minded people. She is inclined to be cool and reserved even toward those she loves.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Joan Blondell instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Joan Blondell needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Cultivating the qualities of empathy, gentleness, and compassion will help counterbalance Blondell's deeply ingrained perfectionism and critical nature. When under stress, she is apt to try to rigorously analyze and focus on what needs to be corrected or improved, and she can easily become problem-oriented and lose sight of the big picture.
Joan Blondell has to learn to relax and surrender to the flow of events without having to figure everything out all the time. She should let her feelings and intuitions flow more freely, be more flexible and fluid, use her imagination and let her dreams emerge!
It is deep within herself, as Joan Blondell faces her own demons, fears, and struggles - those aspects of life that are not easily or readily shared, those parts of her life that Joan Blondell keeps hidden from public view where she is most likely to wrestle with these issues.
The qualities described above can also be beneficially channeled into some sort of charitable work, altruistic service or ministering to people in need.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Joan Blondell back, or which she is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Being excessively egocentric or proud, needing personal recognition and applause, wanting to be center stage all the time, needing to be important and special.
Excessive thinking, rationalizing or talking, the overuse or misuse of Blondell's intellectual abilities and the tendency to allow her energy to be dissipated in trivial activities.
She is well-mannered and has a kind, helpful and obliging nature. Joan Blondell is very social, loves to entertain and enjoys talking with people. Joan feels mentally in tune with others and makes a good companion.
Her relationships with others could be rather unstable and unreliable. With a somewhat negative attitude and weak will, Joan Blondell avoids opposition and escapes her responsibilities. In her relationships she is likely to choose people who are asocial.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Cancer
Saturn in 3rd house
Saturn Conjunct Pluto
Saturn Opposition Venus/N. Node
N. Node in Pisces
N. Node in 12th house
N. Node Opposition Sun
N. Node Opposition Mercury
N. Node Opposition Sun/Mercury
N. Node Opposition Mars/Neptune