Jimmy Hoffa in Relationships
Even-tempered and peace-loving, he is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Jimmy Hoffa has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Hoffa is tremendously stubborn and will resist any change which requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in his home life or marriage.
Jimmy Hoffa seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to his loved ones, and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Hoffa tends to cling and seek to keep others from changing.
A great deal of physical affection, closeness, and touching is essential to Jimmy's well-being, and he has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Jimmy Hoffa substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.
Jimmy Hoffa often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and he is uncomfortable changing it. Even when Hoffa thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions, and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. Jimmy is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. Jimmy Hoffa has good psychological insight into others.
He is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Jimmy Hoffa cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and he can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Hoffa's motto.
Although Hoffa gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure which enables Jimmy Hoffa to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.
Serious and emotionally reserved, Jimmy Hoffa was probably never an exuberant, playful child, and he rarely expresses himself in a spontaneous, childlike manner. He is cautious about letting others get close to him and sometimes withdraws from people altogether. At times, even when Jimmy Hoffa is with people, he feels lonely or isolated. Learning to appreciate his own company and to find satisfying solitary activities is essential to Jimmy's emotional well-being.
Although Jimmy Hoffa was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he has a diametrically opposed tendency as well: The urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Jimmy's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
Jimmy Hoffa tends to surround himself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace-loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in his personal relationships. It is easy for Jimmy to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Jimmy Hoffa may share this type of telepathic link with his mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.
Jimmy Hoffa seems to have the wrong conception of the world around him and may suffer disappointments frequently. It is difficult for Jimmy to adapt himself and to acquire a community spirit, and he cannot achieve the inner understanding with others that he longs for.
His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but it may be difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Jimmy Hoffa enjoys a partner who is dynamic and alive, someone with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Jimmy wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if that means instigating a fight.
Hoffa is very much aware of his personal appearance, attractiveness, and charm, and he can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, Jimmy Hoffa is concerned with getting along with others and he has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. Jimmy uses tact or charm to get what he wants rather than intense effort or force. His desire for love and affection colors everything Jimmy Hoffa does.
Jimmy Hoffa shares freely whatever he has, and his friends know they can always count on Jimmy's generosity and support, both emotional and material. His good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way in maintaining harmony in his relationships. Jimmy Hoffa also has a lazy streak and sometimes he avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Jimmy likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. He cannot tolerate too much restriction by his love partner, and encourages his partner's freedom as well.
He is strongly attracted to the opposite sex and his relationships tend to be harmonious. Jimmy Hoffa will probably marry for love and his mate will be a friend to him as well as a lover. The atmosphere in his family life is affectionate and protective.
Jimmy Hoffa tends to suppress his feelings and he approaches other people with great reserve. He may feel lonesome, but unable to bridge the gap between him and others. But once Jimmy Hoffa enters a relationship, he will be faithful and steady in his feelings for his partner.
Jimmy Hoffa thinks with both his mind and his heart and he has an unobtrusive, empathic intellect. Hoffa relates to others in an affable, considerate and thoughtful way and always seem to find the right words at the right time.
He makes a good impression on others and tends to attract people who want to take care of him, which could cause Jimmy Hoffa to become too dependent on others. Partnership is important to Hoffa, and he is inclined to change his ways just for the sake of love relationships.
Chronically discontented, he is likely to be somewhat unstable in matters of love relationships and affection. Jimmy Hoffa tends to be on the defensive and fear rejection and lack of acceptance. Jimmy has to learn to overcome his fears and general shyness with people.
Jimmy Hoffa has a very erotic and sexual nature and may often find himself drawn to another person by a kind of inner compulsion. Hoffa could become quite obsessed by someone and he has a tendency to control and manipulate his relationships.
His association with those around he may have a depressing influence on Jimmy Hoffa causing him to shy away from relationships of any kind. Finding it difficult to express himself emotionally, he is quite likely to become a loner.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Taurus
Moon in 3rd house
Moon Trine Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Saturn
Moon Conjunct Saturn
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Sextile Neptune
Moon Conjunct Neptune/N. Node
Venus in Aries
Venus in 1st house
Venus Square Jupiter
Venus Conjunct Sun/Moon
Venus Conjunct Sun/Saturn
Venus Conjunct Moon/Mercury
Venus Conjunct Moon/Asc.
Venus Conjunct Mercury/Saturn
Venus Conjunct Mars/Pluto
Venus Conjunct Saturn/Asc.
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