challenges and difficulties
Jimmy Connors takes his personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing experience. He may feel that relationships in general require more of him than they are worth, and Jimmy enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Jimmy Connors also fears entrapment in close relationships.
He may have vague but ever-present feelings of guilt and fear that are difficult to pinpoint or eradicate. It is as if Jimmy Connors does not trust Life itself, and is always seeking ways to defend himself from its dangers and its unknowns. Jimmy Connors must learn to overcome his ingrained habit of discouragement and anxiety, and to see the world more as a friendly place than as a treacherous one.
Jimmy Connors takes his ideals and dreams very seriously and goes through periods of fervent dedication to a lofty ideal or vision. Jimmy has the ability to acquire true spiritual or imaginative insight, but he can also become so involved in his imaginative, idealistic pursuits that he looses perspective and develops feelings of alienation and isolation.
Jimmy Connors becomes tense and upset rather easily. He becomes irritated by the unwillingness of others to make changes. In his eagerness to see his inspirations materialize, Connors is inclined to forego tact and diplomacy in favor of achieving his goals. His occasional outbreaks of brusque, insensitive behavior often do more harm than good.
As a deep thinker, Jimmy Connors has good powers of concentration. However Connors thinks slowly and takes his time making decisions, which are likely to be based on considerations of practicality and economy. Having little to say, Jimmy Connors prefers to talk about serious or sad things.
Somewhat shy, Jimmy finds it difficult to relate to people and tends to withdraw from others. Since it is hard for Jimmy Connors to establish relationships, he would rather be by himself. Jimmy prefers everything to be simple or plain and prefers a more humble and secluded life.
He is not afraid of hard work and leaves no stone unturned in the pursuit of his objectives. Jimmy Connors has a strong desire to overcome any difficulties or obstacles in his way and will do this at all cost, even if it means having to use force.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Jimmy Connors instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Jimmy Connors needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Jimmy Connors' path lies in cultivating idealism and humanitarian feelings, being concerned with how Connors' actions impact the world at large, perhaps becoming more aware of the social implications of Connors' life style and personal choices or becoming active politically. Participating in organizations that support Connors' ideals is one way to do this.
When under stress he is likely to become overly focused on himself and his own little world.
Instead of "how will this benefit or hurt me?" Connors' focus needs to shift to "how will this affect us all?".
Ideally, Jimmy Connors needs to strike a balance between doing for himself and doing for others, by discovering how Connors' unique gifts can benefit others.
It is in trying to strike a balance between Connors' inner, personal life and his career or involvement with the world at large that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Jimmy Connors needs to focus attention on his home and family situation, and create a secure inner anchor.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Jimmy Connors back, or which he is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Excessive thinking, rationalizing or talking, the overuse or misuse of Connors' intellectual abilities and the tendency to allow his energy to be dissipated in trivial activities.
Staying in relationships with domineering, controlling, abusive people or being manipulative. Jimmy sometimes abuses his own power to use others to his own selfish ends.
The following are specific activities that will support Jimmy Connors in his growth. These may or may not feel natural to Connors, and he may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to his path to wholeness.
Jimmy Connors should care for and nourish children, plants, pets or other people. He needs to make a home, create and sustain strong relationships with his family or a community that can support him and give him a sense of safety and belonging.
Jimmy Connors should develop his listening skills and deepen his understanding and appreciation of women and their perspective. Jimmy Connors has to learn to trust his own feelings, intuitions and emotional needs. He needs to care for himself in an accepting, non-judgmental way.
It is in Jimmy Connors' best interest to take all that is good and helpful from his past and use it in a new way. (If he is so inclined, Jimmy may want to explore the potential of past-life regression to tap into gifts he has already developed).
Jimmy Connors tends to pick his friends and associates very carefully and is always on the lookout for responsible and congenial people. This enables Jimmy Connors to feel secure with his colleagues and enjoy good relationships with them.
Connors considers the ability to think and speak convincingly as the most powerful instrument one can possess. He always strives for intellectual control in his environment and tends to dominate his relationships. Jimmy Connors has a strong desire to be the spokesman in his community.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 12th house
Saturn Conjunct Neptune
Saturn Square Uranus
Saturn Conjunct Mercury/Mars
Saturn Conjunct Venus/Asc.
Saturn Conjunct Mars/Pluto
N. Node in Aquarius
N. Node in 4th house
N. Node Opposition Mercury
N. Node Opposition Pluto
N. Node Conjunct Moon
N. Node Opposition Sun/MC
N. Node Opposition Mercury/Pluto