Jim Rodford approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Jim's basic stance toward life, the way others see him, the way Jim Rodford comes across, the face he shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Jim Rodford - his real motivation, which describes the kind of person he is at heart and where his true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Jim Rodford" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Jim a little better. This page describes the disguise Rodford wears, his role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
Cautious, prudent, and rather self-contained, he is a person who approaches life realistically and who is not inclined to take foolish chances or get carried away by the overly optimistic or idealistic schemes of starry-eyed dreamers. In fact, Jim Rodford frequently has a jaundiced view of such things. He is rather worldly-wise at a fairly young age, even somewhat of a cynic. Often the world does not seem like a safe, friendly place to Rodford, and he tends to approach life in a guarded, conservative manner. He is generally calculated and careful, and is rarely spontaneous, fluid, open, and childlike.
He is pragmatic, shrewd, and an excellent strategist, carefully planning his moves for maximum effectiveness and advantage. He is willing to work long and persistently for what he wants and he often does things the hard way. Jim does not expect others to take care of him and sometimes refuses or simply does not seek any outside help. He is often very ambitious, but quietly so. There is nothing flamboyant or flashy about his approach. He is very responsible, conscientious, and concerned with his duties to others and how he comes across socially - his "rank" so to speak.
To others Jim Rodford seems mature, serious, quiet, reflective, and emotionally detached. Jim dislikes sloppy sentimentality and will not openly display his feelings, especially the more tender ones. Rodford likes to always appear poised and in control; and he hates to show any weakness, vulnerability, or chinks in his armor.
Jim Rodford respects tradition and the time-honored way of doing things, and he feels that there is much to be gained from studying history and also by learning from older, more experienced people. A wise mentor or father is often Rodford's guide in life, and he in turn develops a great deal of hard-earned wisdom, which he likes to impart to younger people.
Jim Rodford has a stern, authoritarian, no-nonsense aspect to his personality. He expects much from himself and may not give himself enough leeway to experiment and make mistakes.
He also tends to be rather close-fisted, to save and conserve his money and resources rather than spending or enjoying them. Jim Rodford spends money on things of quality and of lasting value, things which are good investments, but not frivolous, temporary pleasures. There is a bit of the ascetic in him. Jim exercises great self-discipline and self-control and he can "do without" very well. His tastes are generally understated and simple.
Though he may have other, more colorful and imaginative sides, the face Rodford shows the world is modest and rather conservative.
Rodford draws much of his energy and sense of self from his relationships with others. He is inextricably connected with the significant others in his life; Jim Rodford may feel at a loss without them, even if he appears to be the powerful or dominant person in the relationship. Jim appears self-assured - as long as he is secure in the important relationships in his life.
He is highly verbal and communicative. Connecting with and talking to other people are key aspects of Jim's personality. Jim Rodford may sometimes come across as a busybody to others. He may also depend too much on other people's advice or feedback before he makes up his own mind, and Rodford may thus appear to be indecisive.
At times his desire to impress other people, or be important or popular may make Rodford do things that go against his better judgment. Even Jim's sincere attempts to be generous or helpful may be misinterpreted, or seen as pompousness or interference. Jim Rodford needs to be aware of his tendency to overdo - to go all out - even when it is not appropriate.
Jim is adept and competent and has the ability to express himself well. Jim Rodford likes to be in touch with people and is eager to share his views with them. His ability to give and receive mental stimulation attracts many fruitful conversations and relationships.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Capricorn Rising
Sun Opposition Asc.
Mercury Opposition Asc.
Jupiter Quincunx Asc.
Asc. Opposition Sun/Mercury
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