challenges and difficulties
Jim Nabors has a great capacity for self-denial in the pursuit of a long-range goal. Jim is capable of hard work and persistent labor, but he may lack the capacity for joy and play. Jim Nabors often feels burdened by life's demands and responsibilities, and may envy those who seem to attract what they want in life without a great deal of personal effort.
There is a very judgmental, stern, and uncompromising side of Nabors' that may inhibit him a great deal. Jim Nabors must avoid becoming cumbersome and cynical, or a rather callous, sophisticated adult whose sense of practicality and realism rob him of the playful, imaginative side of life.
His childhood or his relationship with his parents was restrictive, unloving or unhappy in ways that may prevent Jim from allowing other people to get close to him in later life. Jim Nabors feels that he was deprived in one form or another, regardless of whether he actually was or not. His early life - at least as Nabors remembers it - may have been marked by emotional separation or repression of his needs and feelings. Forgiving his parents and/or letting go of any resentments he has about the limitations that he experienced early in his life is crucial. Also, Jim Nabors needs to build his own solid foundation, and investing time and energy into his home, domestic relationships, and inner life can help Jim accomplish this task.
Jim Nabors becomes tense and upset rather easily. He becomes irritated by the unwillingness of others to make changes. In his eagerness to see his inspirations materialize, Nabors is inclined to forego tact and diplomacy in favor of achieving his goals. His occasional outbreaks of brusque, insensitive behavior often do more harm than good.
He is inclined to preserve and build up his heritage. Others are attracted to him, but at the same time Jim Nabors gives the impression of being unapproachable. Nabors tends to hold back his feelings and is somewhat inhibited with others, especially in his love relationships.
He is quite cool and reserved in matters of love relationships and tends to hold back his inclination for love. Somewhat inhibited with regard to relationships, Jim Nabors is inclined to feel that he is better off staying by himself.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Jim Nabors instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Jim Nabors needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Jim Nabors benefits by becoming more aware of the rhythm of the seasons and the natural world, learning to slow down and allow life to unfold in its own time. Nurturing a garden, a child, or some other living, growing thing gives Jim Nabors a sense of inner balance.
Jim Nabors has a tendency to be deeply suspicious, to not take anything at face value and to see hidden agendas and dark motives even where none exist! Life does not have to be a constant conflict... Jim needs to learn to accept things as they are.
Nabors also needs to develop patience, peace and stability by grounding himself in his daily work and behaving consistently and reliably towards others.
It is in relationships that are more than superficial or casual - in particular in cases where Jim Nabors has merged emotionally, legally, or financially with another person - that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. Nabors will see these issues arise in close partnerships of any kind, especially when there is a mutual dependency involved. Dealing with in-laws, inheritances, and legal matters involving joint custody, shared assets, and resources is also a part of this.
The following are specific activities that will support Jim Nabors in his growth. These may or may not feel natural to Nabors, and he may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to his path to wholeness.
Jim Nabors should become a warrior and cultivate a positive, victorious, active approach to life and to any problems he faces. It is in Nabors' best interest to act on his own behalf instead of stalling, waiting or hoping someone else will do it for him. Jim Nabors needs to assert himself openly and courageously and not to be afraid to make mistakes or stumble; there are bound to be a few trial runs to any new initiative. Jim needs to foster a healthy fighting spirit, pick himself up, and go! He also should learn to appreciate conflict and confrontation as a means to grow.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Capricorn
Saturn in 4th house
Saturn Square Uranus
Saturn Opposition Venus/Jupiter
Saturn Opposition Venus/MC
N. Node in Taurus
N. Node in 8th house
N. Node Conjunct Mars