challenges and difficulties
Kilcher fears of becoming emotionally dependent upon others, and may distance herself or deny her needs for relationships of closeness and intimacy so that she will not be vulnerable to rejection or abandonment. On the other hand, Jewel Kilcher may cling excessively or need constant reassurance from loved ones and family. Developing a deep, inner sense of security, as well as the ability to give and receive nurturing are important tasks for Jewel.
Kilcher is generally not a "joiner" and she does not feel comfortable in clubs, organizations or other groups of people that are centered on some common ideal or interest. If Jewel Kilcher does participate in a group, she may find the rules and procedures restrictive - or she may simply feel that she does not fit in with the others.
Being alone or with older, more experienced people suits Jewel Kilcher better than being with groups of her own peers.
Once she decides what she wants to do, Jewel Kilcher will pursue her goal tenaciously and, if necessary, sacrifice a great deal for her deeply felt convictions. This trait tends to make Jewel feel a little out of step with others. Jewel Kilcher takes things a little more seriously and has an inclination to be somewhat of a fanatic, although probably not flamboyantly so; as a result, others may not be aware of how deeply Jewel feels and how driven she is about the things that are important to her. Jewel Kilcher has a deep inner resolve and is willing to struggle to do the things that are really meaningful to her, rather than follow an easier but less meaningful course in life.
Jewel Kilcher has a desire to break away from tradition and to free herself from restricting conditions. Somewhat inflexible and rigid, she may suddenly become inhibited before she initiates her objectives, which could work out to Kilcher's disadvantage.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Jewel Kilcher instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Jewel Kilcher needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
It is easy for Jewel Kilcher to become distracted from her path by the multitude of interesting choices, possibilities, and options available to her. Jewel Kilcher needs to develop single mindedness and focus. Until Jewel directs her attention to some of the big questions, such as "What is my life's purpose?" "What is really important to me and essential to my happiness?", she is apt to dabble, scatter her energies in many directions and engage in activities which are entertaining but ultimately neither fruitful nor enriching.
Having an overall vision for her life and aligning her daily activities so that they support rather than detract from Kilcher's larger purpose in life, is a significant step toward her personal development.
The arena she is most likely to wrestle with these issues is in playful self-expression, games or sports, and creativity. Jewel Kilcher should try to develop any artistic, expressive, creative potentials she feels she possesses, utilizing the qualities described above.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Jewel Kilcher back, or which she is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Excessive thinking, rationalizing or talking, the overuse or misuse of Kilcher's intellectual abilities and the tendency to allow her energy to be dissipated in trivial activities.
Jewel Kilcher has a very sympathetic and compassionate attitude toward others and shows her interest in their well-being. Her relationships are more on a personal basis and people are drawn to Kilcher because of her sincerity and kindness.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Cancer
Saturn in 11th house
Saturn Square Pluto
Saturn Opposition Jupiter/Uranus
N. Node in Sagittarius
N. Node in 5th house
N. Node Opposition Mercury
N. Node Opposition Venus/Asc.