challenges and difficulties
Jet has an innate distrust of groups and/or a cynical attitude toward society that may leave him feeling out of step and unable to participate in activities with his peers. Overcoming a sense of aloofness and alienation from others is an important task for Li.
Jet Li takes his commitments to others very seriously, especially in close one-to-one relationships. His strong sense of responsibility to the other person makes Li a trustworthy and dedicated partner, but he often feels that marriage or any binding commitment between him and another person is too restrictive and burdensome, and thus seeks to avoid it. Close relationships may be more work than pleasure for Jet Li and it may seem that he is always "working on" his marriage rather than enjoying it. However, Li will persevere and ultimately grow through the process.
He is subject to rash decisions and impulsive actions that may have sudden, unexpected consequences and undesirable results. Not very adaptable, Jet Li could have considerable tension in his relationships and is likely to have disputes or even violent fights with others.
He may feel hindered or oppressed by other people frequently and overcoming difficulties jointly with others could come suddenly. Jet Li seems to be afraid of his own courage and may find it hard to express his desires.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Jet Li instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Jet Li needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
When under stress, Jet Li is apt to shut off the flow of his emotions and ignore his needs and feelings in order to do what he perceives as his duty or simply what the practical realities of the situation dictate. This can lead to a certain rigidity and inflexibility. If overdone, self-control, self-discipline, or an exaggerated concern over what society, family or others expect of him, makes life more of a burden than an adventure.
Fostering his tender, caring, feminine, and nurturing aspects is an important step in Jet Li's growth. Jet Li needs to learn how to nourish and lovingly tend to both himself and others. Letting himself be taken care of sometimes is okay!
It is deep within himself, as Jet Li faces his own demons, fears, and struggles - those aspects of life that are not easily or readily shared, those parts of his life that Jet Li keeps hidden from public view where he is most likely to wrestle with these issues.
The qualities described above can also be beneficially channeled into some sort of charitable work, altruistic service or ministering to people in need.
He is highly emotional and tends to display his feelings in a theatrical way. Jet Li seems to enjoy being somewhat eccentric and finds it difficult to adapt himself to others. Although he may seek emotional fulfillment, Jet does not do well in relationships and team work.
Jet has an inclination to gossip and spread stories or he could be the subject of gossip himself at times. His perception of partnership and family relationships tends to be somewhat unrealistic, and Jet Li may put up a good front and pretend to have a harmonious life.
Jet Li tends to be a bit too idealistic and may place too much hope on his relationships, resulting in frequent disappointments. Jet could be attracted to naive people, but some of his contacts also may turn out to be swindlers.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Aquarius
Saturn in 7th house
Saturn Opposition Mars/Uranus
Saturn Opposition Uranus/Asc.
N. Node in Cancer
N. Node in 12th house
N. Node Conjunct Moon/Pluto
N. Node Opposition Venus/Neptune
N. Node Opposition Jupiter/Neptune