challenges and difficulties
He is very self-conscious and has a great need for ego-affirmation and praise. Expressing himself freely and openly is not easy for Hardy. Jeff Hardy tends to work hard at playing and "having fun", rather than being light-hearted and spontaneous. Developing self-love and self-acceptance regardless of his "performance" is an important task for Jeff.
He is very conscientious, responsible, and concerned with his duty, his public image and reputation, and becoming a person of stature in the world. Jeff Hardy understands the need for hard work and careful planning in order to accomplish anything substantial and he is capable of much self-discipline and patience once he sets his sights on a goal.
But Jeff Hardy is very judgmental and hard on himself if he fails to attain success, and he can become dry, bitter, or cynical if the world does not recognize his efforts.
He is not afraid of hard work and leaves no stone unturned in the pursuit of his objectives. Jeff Hardy has a strong desire to overcome any difficulties or obstacles in his way and will do this at all cost, even if it means having to use force.
Quite reserved and somewhat inhibited in his relationships with others, Jeff Hardy may feel that he is better off by himself. Jeff feels that he does not fit in very well with people and he finds teamwork difficult.
Sometimes circumstances appear to be working against Jeff, and he may have to confront major challenges. Jeff Hardy will probably have to work harder than others in order to succeed, thereby rendering him hard and cold hearted in his decision-making.
Because he is somewhat inhibited when initiating relationships with others, Jeff Hardy may prefer to be by himself. Jeff may feel that he does not fit in very well with others and as a result, may have difficulties with team-work.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Jeff Hardy instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Jeff Hardy needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Instinctively he is a fighter and an individualist who can stand alone when necessary. Very often, however, Jeff stands alone when he does not need to, not realizing the support, assistance, and resources others may have to offer. Jeff Hardy has a tendency to "reinvent the wheel" and to feel that he must be self-reliant and that only he can come up with the answers he needs. Implicit in this attitude is a kind of arrogance as well as a rather competitive approach, which - at its worst - can alienate him from others, or make Jeff Hardy feel that "it is me against the world".
Social skills and graces and what Jeff Hardy calls social "games" do not come naturally to him. Jeff Hardy needs to learn how to share and join others, and how to negotiate and resolve conflict with others in a cooperative way.
It is in any involvements he has with teams, clubs, organizations, networks, and the like that Jeff Hardy is most likely to wrestle with these issues. The qualities described above need to be channeled into some sort of group effort or experience, or have some impact on society at large.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Jeff Hardy back, or which he is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Being bound to past events and experiences because of his desire to belong, deep attachments to family and the familiar (even if they are neither nourishing nor helpful), the desire to nurture or be nurtured by others, and a strong resistance to cutting the umbilical cord.
The following are specific activities that will support Jeff Hardy in his growth. These may or may not feel natural to Hardy, and he may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to his path to wholeness.
Jeff Hardy's path to wholeness involves confronting his dark and hidden recesses, bringing them out into the open, and transforming himself in the process. Healing abilities develop as a result of Hardy's willingness to experience and transform deep emotions such as grief, anger, and pain. Furthermore, bringing light to the darkness and pain in the world without becoming overwhelmed by it is a significant challenge for Jeff.
He is very obliging in his interaction with other people and can easily relate to them. Jeff Hardy is likely to have many friends and acquaintances who share the same ideas and viewpoints as he does.
Some of his relationships tend to be a bit peculiar and Jeff should beware of becoming involved with bad company. Jeff Hardy could be easily lured by others to take part in dubious or underhanded schemes.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Leo
Saturn in 10th house
Saturn Conjunct Mars/Pluto
Saturn Conjunct Mars/N. Node
Saturn Conjunct Jupiter/Pluto
Saturn Conjunct Jupiter/N. Node
N. Node in Libra
N. Node in 11th house
N. Node Opposition Moon
N. Node Conjunct Pluto
N. Node Conjunct Mercury/Asc.
N. Node Conjunct Neptune/MC