Jeff Chandler
in Relationships
Even-tempered and peace loving, he is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Jeff Chandler has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Chandler is tremendously stubborn and resists any change that requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in his home life or marriage.
Jeff Chandler seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to his loved ones and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Chandler tends to cling to others and prevent them from changing.
A great deal of physical affection, closeness and touching is crucial to Jeff's well-being, and he has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Jeff Chandler substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.
He is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for his belongings give Jeff Chandler a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to him. Antiques or articles with sentimental value from Jeff's past are especially dear to him.
Jeff Chandler may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of his immediate circle.
He is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Jeff Chandler cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and he can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Chandler's motto.
Although Chandler gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Jeff Chandler to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.
Jeff Chandler often feels that he must do something or be something other than what he is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. He is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though he may appear cool or distant, Chandler actually cares very much about being included. Because he is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Jeff Chandler to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises he may endure once he lets others really know him in an intimate, personal way. His reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Jeff Chandler becomes very attached to the few people he considers "real friends". Chandler can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if he views them as times to nourish himself and develop his own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.
In addition to Jeff's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, he has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Jeff Chandler craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Chandler rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. His freer and unpredictable side will now be described.
Jeff Chandler craves excitement, change and discovery, and cannot tolerate a routine or lifestyle that offers little in the way of surprise or challenge. Excitable, spontaneous and enthusiastic about anything new, he may be perceived by others as being too impulsive, especially in personal relationships. It is not easy for Jeff Chandler to make or keep commitments, since he does not know how he will be feeling from one day to the next. Emotional freedom is very important to Chandler. His domestic life may be very unstable - but Chandler likes it that way.
In love relationships, Jeff Chandler seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. He enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Jeff, and he is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than his own. Jeff Chandler supports his partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. He also very much wants a partner who will encourage his own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Jeff that he have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with his love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Jeff Chandler is not especially sentimental and his love partner may feel that he is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.
Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Jeff Chandler very happy. Jeff wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Jeff Chandler may be "married to" his work - namely he may be more involved in his career than in his private life. Chandler is a natural host or diplomat.
Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Jeff Chandler in love relationships. He is cautious about giving his heart away but true to the one who does win his love. His tastes are simple, even austere, and he does not appreciate frivolity. Chandler is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in his or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Jeff Chandler at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for him with time.
When it comes to love relationships, Chandler is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, Jeff Chandler has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Jeff acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.
He needs a lot of emotional and romantic stimulation, and may not be very interested in having just one mate or love partner. Variety, excitement, spontaneity, and freedom are quite important to Jeff, and "settling down" is not that appealing. Jeff Chandler tends to surround himself with unusual, creative, unconventional people that keep his life lively. Music or dancing or both play an important part in Chandler's life.
Jeff Chandler tends to think a lot about art and beauty as well as matters of love relationships and is content with the way things are in his life. He is comfortable in talking to someone about his feelings toward them. Jeff Chandler also could find artistic endeavors very rewarding.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Taurus
Moon in 2nd house
Moon Trine Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Saturn
Moon Square Saturn
Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus
Moon Square Uranus
Venus in Sagittarius
Venus in 10th house
Venus Trine Saturn
Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus
Venus Sextile Uranus
Venus Conjunct Mercury/MC
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