Javier Bardem
in Relationships

Warm, loving and generous in his relationships, Javier Bardem inspires tremendous devotion and loyalty in his loved ones. This is good, since he would never settle for anything less! Javier wants to be adored and worshipped like the royalty he feels he is, and it is difficult for anyone to resist the warmth and attention Bardem lavishes on those he cares about. Javier Bardem has a great deal of pride and needs to be recognized and appreciated. The way to really hurt his feelings is to ignore him. He is genuine, sincere, and has a strong sense of personal integrity. Javier Bardem hates emotional games and dishonesty.

Javier Bardem often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when Bardem thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. Javier is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. Javier Bardem has good psychological insight into others.

Javier Bardem has a dreamy nature and an inclination to be influenced or led easily by other people. Javier looks for the perfect mate and dream of fulfillment. Javier Bardem must learn to deal with his extreme idealism and to face life a little more realistically.

His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but he may find it difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Javier Bardem enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Javier wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.

Bardem is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Javier Bardem thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.

Intimacy does not come easily to Javier Bardem and he may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to his emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in his early life, Bardem does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of his barriers and defenses. He may feel that he has few friends or people that really care about him. Javier Bardem needs to learn to value and love himself more and to express his appreciation for others more openly.

He is prone to getting involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Javier Bardem to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Bardem may be tempted to use his own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if his intentions are basically good, Javier Bardem will find that his closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unsavory aspects of his character (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep surfacing. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Leo

Moon in 3rd house

Moon Opposition Venus/Neptune

Venus in Aries

Venus in 11th house

Venus Conjunct Saturn

Venus Quincunx Pluto