Janet Lennon in Relationships
Open and generous, Janet Lennon enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and she thrives on sociability and fellowship. She is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Lennon rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep her down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Janet always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, she is uncomfortable with her own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Janet Lennon often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but she unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.
Friendship means a great deal to Lennon, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Janet Lennon to be happy, her mate must be her best friend and encourage Janet's aspirations and ideals. Janet Lennon also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.
She is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for her belongings give Janet Lennon a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to her. Antiques or things with sentimental value from Janet's past are especially dear to her.
Janet Lennon may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of her immediate circle.
She is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Janet Lennon cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and she can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Lennon's motto.
There is a side to Janet Lennon which loves comfort and the easy life, and unless other factors in her chart indicate strong drive and ambition, Lennon can be lazy and overly permissive with herself. She enjoys being taken care of and pampered, and self-indulgence is always a temptation for Lennon. If Janet's parents made the unfortunate mistake of indulging her too much as a child, this may be a very hard habit to break. Janet Lennon can be so soft and affectionate that it is hard to say no to her. Eating too many sweets is a vice Janet is particularly prone to.
Although Lennon gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), she also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Janet Lennon to rein in some of her more aggressive tendencies. This side of her is described below.
Lennon can be hard to get close to. Subconsciously she may feel that too much closeness in her relationships will interfere with doing what she needs to do and being her own person, so Janet Lennon puts up subtle walls and distance herself when someone begins to want more of her than she can comfortably give. However, Lennon may cut off sources of emotional nourishment and support that way, and end up feeling alone and lonely. Janet Lennon might even develop digestive problems. Overcoming her fears of intimacy, while at the same time affirming and acting on her autonomous needs, is the challenge here.
Sensitive and sentimental, Janet Lennon is deeply attached to her family, old friends, familiar places and the past. She is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Lennon to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Janet Lennon seeks caring, emotional support, and security in her love relationships. Janet likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect her loved ones, of whom she is somewhat possessive.
Janet is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show Lennon places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.
Also, Janet Lennon feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.
Intimacy does not come easily to Janet Lennon and she may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to her emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in her early life, Lennon does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of her barriers and defenses. She may feel that she has few friends or people that really care about her. Janet Lennon needs to learn to value and love herself more and to express her appreciation for others more openly.
She is romantic and amorous and has a well-developed sexual nature. Janet expresses her feelings openly, but sometimes could feel hurt if people do not respond to her. Janet Lennon also has a strong drive to express herself in artistic ways.
Her interests may lead Janet Lennon to unusual or specialized artistic fields and she has the ability to successfully advertise or promote her projects. Janet could do well in journalism and in writing sexual literature. This astrological configuration also is associated with a marriage swindler!
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Sagittarius
Moon in 2nd house
Moon Trine Mars
Moon Quincunx Venus
Moon aspects Mars and Saturn
Moon Quincunx Saturn
Venus in Cancer
Venus in 9th house
Venus Conjunct Saturn
Venus Conjunct Sun/Mars
Venus Conjunct Mercury/Pluto
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