Jamie Salé
in Relationships
Jamie does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and she is often unaware of her own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder her and make her very uncomfortable. Jamie Salé would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but she tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe her own or others' inner depths.
Jamie Salé avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.
She needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom she can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Salé. The strong, silent partner is not for her.
Jamie Salé often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because she has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when Salé thinks she is being rational, her prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence her thoughts a great deal. Jamie is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with her as well. Jamie Salé has good psychological insight into others.
She is tolerant and forgiving and always ready to overlook mistakes and give others a second chance. Jamie Salé expects, and draws out, the best from people and she enjoys making others comfortable and happy. Because of her emotional generosity, her life is rich with friends, and often financial blessings as well.
Her will tends to be a bit weak and she seems to lack courage. Somewhat slow to take action, Jamie Salé thinks that she will fail because of her inadequacies as a person. She keeps her feelings to herself and should guard against depression and pessimism.
Her love feelings and desires are easily aroused but she may find it difficult to sustain her romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Jamie Salé enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and she does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Jamie wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.
Salé is very much aware of her personal appearance, attractiveness and charm, and she can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, Jamie Salé is concerned with getting along with others and she has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. Jamie uses tact or charm to get what she wants rather than intense effort or force. Her desire for love and affection colors everything Jamie Salé does.
Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Jamie Salé in love relationships. She is cautious about giving her heart away but true to the one who does win her love. Her tastes are simple, even austere, and she does not appreciate frivolity. Salé is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in her or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Jamie Salé at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for her with time.
When it comes to love relationships, Salé is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to her desire for depth and security in her relationships, Jamie Salé has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Jamie acts on her spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on her personal life.
While she may seek loving relationships and an "everlasting" love, this is not easy for Jamie Salé to find - or more precisely, to sustain. When Jamie becomes romantically involved with someone, either she or the other person will create rifts once a certain level of comfort and predictability has been achieved. Even if there is no outward break in the relationship, a certain emotional aloofness or dissatisfaction is apt to develop. This is because Jamie Salé really wants both closeness and absolute freedom - a combination that is difficult to attain. However, if she does not at least attempt to honestly fulfill both of these urges, seemingly random events will wreak havoc in Jamie's closest relationships.
Intimate relationships are the arena in which Jamie Salé explores the depths she is capable of. She could fall intensely and fanatically in love and be obsessive, extraordinarily jealous or deeply involved with her partners. Salé will experience both heaven and hell in her closest relationships. There is undoubtedly a peculiarly karmic, fated quality to these relationships, which - though difficult - will teach Jamie Salé things about herself and about love that she could not learn in any other way. Salé will often enter relationships which she realizes - rationally - will be very difficult, yet she cannot resist them, nonetheless. Jamie Salé needs not to avoid berating herself for these "bad" choices; instead, she needs to learn what she can from them.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Gemini
Moon in 3rd house
Moon Conjunct Jupiter
Moon Conjunct Mars/Saturn
Venus in Aries
Venus in 1st house
Venus Trine Saturn
Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus
Venus Quincunx Uranus
Venus Opposition Pluto
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