James Spader
in Relationships

James does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and he is often unaware of his own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder him and make him very uncomfortable. James Spader would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but he tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe his own or others' inner depths.

James Spader avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.

He needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom he can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Spader. The strong, silent partner is not for him.

Spader works well with the public and has an instinct for what the public wants and will respond to. Having a "nest" is not especially important to James, and he may invest more of his emotional energy into his career or public life than in his private life. He is likely to be engaged in providing and caring for others in a professional capacity.

Gregarious and fun loving, he is always out to have a good time. James Spader tends to "play now, pay later" and is prone to overspend, overeat, drink too much, and in general overdo, and even more so when in the company of others. It is hard for James Spader to say no, especially when Spader's emotions or appetites are involved. Generous to a fault, he is likely to be very free both with money and with affection.

He is definitely not one to wear his heart on his sleeve. James Spader cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Spader's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest James at all. He is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. James Spader is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to his loved one in good times and in bad.

James Spader may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security James desires.

A warm, loving and comfortable home is very important to James Spader and he invests a lot of his energy into beautifying, decorating and creating a lovely home. Also, James shares his affection with the people in his family very generously and having close family ties is a major priority for him. Being at home makes Spader happy.

James Spader is extremely amorous and it is difficult for him to go without romantic relationships for very long. When he is attracted to someone, James Spader pursues her very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Being engaged in creative or artistic work can also satisfy his very strong desire for love and beauty.

Intimacy does not come easily to James Spader and he may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to his emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in his early life, Spader does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of his barriers and defenses. He may feel that he has few friends or people that really care about him. James Spader needs to learn to value and love himself more and to express his appreciation for others more openly.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Gemini

Moon in 10th house

Moon Opposition Jupiter

Venus in Capricorn

Venus in 4th house

Venus Conjunct Mars

Venus Conjunct Saturn