challenges and difficulties
Jackie Stallone takes her personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort, and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing. She may feel that relationships in general require more of her than they are worth, and Jackie enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Jackie Stallone also fears entrapment in close relationships.
She may have nebulous but ever-present guilt and fears that are difficult to pinpoint or eradicate. It is as if Jackie Stallone does not trust Life itself, and is always seeking ways to defend herself from its dangers and its unknowns. Jackie Stallone must learn to overcome her ingrained habit of discouragement and anxiety, and to see the world more as a friendly place than as a treacherous one.
Once she decides what she wants to do, Jackie Stallone will pursue her goal tenaciously and, if necessary, sacrifice a great deal for her deeply felt convictions. This trait tends to make Jackie feel a little out of step with others. Jackie Stallone takes things a little more seriously and has an inclination to be somewhat of a fanatic, although probably not flamboyantly so; as a result, others may not be aware of how deeply Jackie feels and how driven she is about the things that are important to her. Jackie Stallone has a deep inner resolve and is willing to struggle to do the things that are really meaningful to her, rather than follow an easier but less meaningful course in life.
The side of Jackie Stallone that wants and needs structure, order, stability, and a disciplined way of life is at odds with her urges for unfettered freedom, change, excitement, and discovery. There is apt to be much discontent, inner stress, and tension due to this, and at times Jackie finds it hard to relax. Jackie Stallone may act out in a rebellious way now and then, or clamp down hard on herself, in an attempt to strictly control her "wild" impulses. Stallone's task is to try to find a reasonable balance between order and creative chaos in her life.
Jackie Stallone has a tendency to think on the dark side, is somewhat gloomy and touchy and easily disappointed. She may find it hard to keeps her attention on the real world and could become obsessed with strange ideas and fanciful beliefs.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Jackie Stallone instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that she is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for her. The direction Jackie Stallone needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Instinctively she is a fighter and an individualist who can stand alone when necessary. Very often, however, Jackie stands alone when she does not need to, not realizing the support, assistance, and resources others may have to offer. Jackie Stallone has a tendency to "reinvent the wheel" and to feel that she must be self-reliant and that only she can come up with the answers she needs. Implicit in this attitude is a kind of arrogance as well as a rather competitive approach, which - at its worst - can alienate her from others, or make Jackie Stallone feel that "it is me against the world".
Social skills and graces and what Jackie Stallone calls social "games" do not come naturally to her. Jackie Stallone needs to learn how to share and join others, and how to negotiate and resolve conflict with others in a cooperative way.
It is in her relationships with others that she is most likely to wrestle with these issues. There is a dynamic balance (or conflict) within Jackie Stallone between acting spontaneously and being true to herself versus modifying herself or her behavior to suit others. Jackie Stallone seesaws between being inordinately concerned with her self to being overly conciliatory and concerned with others' needs, rights, or opinions about her. Learning to act authentically and forthrightly regardless of possible consequences is Stallone's task.
The following are specific activities that will support Jackie Stallone in her growth. These may or may not feel natural to Stallone, and she may initially resist or feel awkward about them, but they are crucial to her path to wholeness.
Jackie Stallone should become a warrior and cultivate a positive, victorious, active approach to life and to any problems she faces. It is in Stallone's best interest to act on her own behalf instead of stalling, waiting or hoping someone else will do it for her. Jackie Stallone needs to assert herself openly and courageously and not to be afraid to make mistakes or stumble; there are bound to be a few trial runs to any new initiative. Jackie needs to foster a healthy fighting spirit, pick herself up, and go! She also should learn to appreciate conflict and confrontation as a means to grow.
Jackie Stallone should develop faith and confidence both in herself and in a higher power that can guide, nourish, and help her. She needs to expand her willingness to dream and envision better things in life by studying religion, philosophy and other subjects that enable her to acquire a larger, more inclusive view of the world.
Being generous with her time, energy and resources in helping others achieve a better life will in turn benefit Jackie Stallone.
She may have the feeling that she constantly has to surrender to the wishes of other people and she gives the impression of having a passive or indifferent role in her relationships. Jackie Stallone never takes the initiative and depends on the support of groups she is affiliated with.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 12th house
Saturn Square Pluto
Saturn Quincunx Uranus
Saturn Conjunct Mercury/Neptune
N. Node in Libra
N. Node in 1st house
N. Node Conjunct Mars
N. Node Conjunct Jupiter
N. Node Conjunct Moon/Neptune