Jack Valenti
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Jack Valenti only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Valenti.

Jack has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Jack Valenti has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Jack Valenti to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Jack Valenti has a great deal of emotional depth.

Valenti depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and he has a large "family" of friends who care about him and treat him as kin. The women in Jack's life are particularly important to him, and his relationships with them have a powerful impact on his sense of security and happiness. Jack Valenti may be overly dependent and unsure of himself without a close partner.

Jack has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate his personal life and relationships. He may feel that he cannot depend on his love partner to take care of him or perhaps Valenti cannot decide what he really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If his needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.

He is uninhibited and spontaneous and will often do something unexpected or humorous in order to loosen people up and get them out of their rut. Jack Valenti craves emotional stimulation, excitement, surprises and anything new. Valenti also loves to feel free and unfettered.

He enjoys emotional intensity and is attracted to the mysterious, the unknown, and dangerous or challenging experiences that draw on all of his inner resources. He is able to handle an emotional crisis very well and is interested in the underlying root of emotional problems and how to cure them. Jack Valenti insists on bringing feelings between people out into the open, for he craves real closeness and intimacy in his relationships, without barriers or secrets.

Warmhearted and generous in love relationships, Jack Valenti cannot tolerate pettiness or stinginess in his partner. Jack wants a hero to idolize and adore, someone to wholeheartedly admire and be proud of. Jack Valenti is tremendously loyal and devoted once he gives his heart to someone.

Jack Valenti craves love, appreciation and attention from others and hates to be ignored. He is rather susceptible to flattery and loves to feel special. Valenti enjoys a touch of drama and color in his love relationships and he is impressed by grand romantic gestures or extravagant expressions of generosity.

A warm, loving and comfortable home is very important to Jack Valenti and he invests a lot of his energy into beautifying, decorating and creating a lovely home. Also, Jack shares his affection with the people in his family very generously and having close family ties is a major priority for him. Being at home makes Valenti happy.

While he may seek loving relationships and an "everlasting" love, this is not easy for Jack Valenti to find - or more precisely, to sustain. When Jack becomes romantically involved with someone, either he or the other person will create rifts once a certain level of comfort and predictability has been achieved. Even if there is no outward break in the relationship, a certain emotional aloofness or dissatisfaction is apt to develop. This is because Jack Valenti really wants both closeness and absolute freedom - a combination that is difficult to attain. However, if he does not at least attempt to honestly fulfill both of these urges, seemingly random events will wreak havoc in Jack's closest relationships.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 7th house

Moon Square Venus

Moon Trine Uranus

Moon Trine Pluto

Venus in Leo

Venus in 4th house

Venus Quincunx Uranus