Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson
in Relationships

Tenderhearted and sympathetic to an unusual degree, Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson has an understanding of other people's feelings and needs which borders on telepathy. Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson is extremely compassionate and cannot bear to see any fellow creature - human or animal - suffer. Because of her kindness and nonjudgmental attitude, people suffering from pain or confusion are drawn to Jacobson for help, which she readily gives. Sometimes Jacobson's soft-heartedness is taken advantage of.

She is a gentle, poetic soul and has a great love and affinity for music. Because many of her feelings are vague and she cannot easily verbalize how she experiences life, music seems a natural language for Jacobson. She is also extremely romantic and often "in love with love".

Though she yearns for close relationships, Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson often closes herself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know her. Jacobson is very wholehearted in her feelings and responses to people, and she wants all or nothing from the people she cares for.

She is temperamental and impatient and can be very difficult to live with. Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson tends to respond with a temper tantrum (overt or subtle) if her desires are frustrated. Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson becomes very irritable and bad-tempered if she lacks vigorous physical activity or other outlets for her aggressive, feisty spirit.

Although she is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances it all out. While hotheaded at times, she is usually a good sport.

Generally sunny and optimistic, Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson has a cheering effect on those around her. Ivy likes and needs people, and others genuinely like her too. She enjoys a wide circle of friends who are like family to her. Entertaining, partying, social activities, and fellowship are essential to her emotional well-being.

Although Jacobson gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), she also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson to rein in some of her more aggressive tendencies. This side of her is described below.

There is another side to Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers her good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.

Jacobson can be hard to get close to. Subconsciously she may feel that too much closeness in her relationships will interfere with doing what she needs to do and being her own person, so Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson puts up subtle walls and distances herself when someone begins to want more of her than she can comfortably give. However, Jacobson may cut off sources of emotional nourishment and support that way, and end up feeling alone and lonely. Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson might even develop digestive problems. Overcoming her fear of intimacy, while at the same time affirming and acting on her autonomous needs, is the challenge she faces.

In addition to Ivy's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, she has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Jacobson rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. Her freer and unpredictable side will now be described.

She is uninhibited and spontaneous and will often do something unexpected or humorous in order to loosen people up and get them out of their rut. Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson craves emotional stimulation, excitement, surprises and anything new. Jacobson also loves to feel free and unfettered.

Although Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, she also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Ivy's fiery reactions somewhat, or she may seesaw between the two. Her softer side is described in the following paragraphs.

She is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Ivy does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in her personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into her imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. She is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if her sympathy has been aroused. Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.

Ivy has intense desires and feelings and her personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well. Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson has powerful magnetic relationships with those she cares about, and she could become emotionally obsessed by another person. Her feelings can become so urgent and compelling that she behaves irrationally. Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson undergoes periodic emotional upheavals and purging when she must break all ties with the past and begin anew.

Her love feelings and desires are easily aroused but she may find it difficult to sustain her romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and she does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Ivy wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.

Ivy is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show her places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.

Moreover, Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.

Ivy Goldstein-Jacobson has a merry disposition and a strong desire for pleasure and amusement. Interested in art, she has a sense of beauty, but also could be somewhat extravagant. Her outgoing personality puts others at ease and Jacobson tends to discuss love and beauty with them.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Pisces

Moon in 8th house

Moon Square Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter

Moon Sextile Jupiter

Moon aspects Mars and Saturn

Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Moon Quincunx Saturn

Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus

Moon Trine Uranus

Moon aspects Mars and Neptune

Moon Square Neptune

Moon Square Pluto

Venus in Aries

Venus in 9th house

Venus Conjunct Mercury/Jupiter