Hugh Robert Mill
in Relationships

He is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from his own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if he could turn his feelings on and off at will; Hugh should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for he could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to him as they are to most people and Mill often considers his friends closer to him than his blood relatives. Certainly, Mill's sympathy and concern extends much beyond his immediate family. In his personal relationships, Hugh Robert Mill insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as he chooses. Hugh does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.

Hugh Robert Mill feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and he has little taste for convention and tradition.

Hugh has strong attachments to his past, the place where he grew up, his heritage, and family traditions. In fact, Hugh Robert Mill may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that he learned as a child. Mill's tie to his mother is very strong and Hugh Robert Mill also seeks nurturing and protection from his spouse and other family members as well.

Hugh Robert Mill tends to be touchy, defensive and rather territorial, and if he perceives a threat to his family or home or personal safety, he can be quite aggressive. Sometimes Hugh feels out of sorts and hostile for no apparent reason, and this is usually due to unexpressed, unresolved anger from the past. Hugh Robert Mill also has a desire to lead, to compete, or to be a free agent, that he is not entirely conscious of. It is good for Mill to have benign outlets and ways to let off steam on a regular basis, such as demanding physical work or athletics. Otherwise Hugh Robert Mill may be rather hard to live with, even abusive in his relationships.

Although Mill gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Hugh Robert Mill to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.

Mill can be hard to get close to. Subconsciously he may feel that too much closeness in his relationships will interfere with doing what he needs to do and being his own person, so Hugh Robert Mill puts up subtle walls and distance himself when someone begins to want more of him than he can comfortably give. However, Mill may cut off sources of emotional nourishment and support that way, and end up feeling alone and lonely. Hugh Robert Mill might even develop digestive problems. Overcoming his fears of intimacy, while at the same time affirming and acting on his autonomous needs, is the challenge here.

Although Hugh Robert Mill was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Hugh's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.

Hugh Robert Mill tends to surround himself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace-loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in his personal relationships. It is easy for Hugh to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Hugh Robert Mill may share this type of telepathic link with his mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.

His will tends to be a bit weak and he seems to lack courage. Somewhat slow to take action, Hugh Robert Mill thinks that he will fail because of his inadequacies as a person. He keeps his feelings to himself and should guard against depression and pessimism.

Hugh Robert Mill has a cheerful temperament and a harmonious disposition. Because of his easy personality, Mill gets along easily with others. Home and family relationships are precious to Hugh and his home is likely to be large and lavish.

In a love relationship, Hugh Robert Mill is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Hugh likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps him guessing and Hugh Robert Mill becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises him. It is very important to Hugh Robert Mill's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Hugh Robert Mill needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Mill finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.

Hugh is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show Mill places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.

Also, Hugh Robert Mill feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.

He is excitable, spontaneous, and easily aroused emotionally and sexually. Hugh Robert Mill falls in love very quickly and has little self-restraint or concern for propriety when his feelings have been stirred. However, it may be difficult for Hugh to sustain relationships after the first rush of excitement wanes, especially if Mill's partner is basically a conservative person who does not like to change or experiment. Nontraditional relationships appeal to Hugh Robert Mill, and personal freedom is or paramount importance to him.

Hugh Robert Mill has a good understanding of his own needs but also is genuinely interested in other people. Others are attracted to Mill because of his gentle, kind and friendly manner and he may feel especially drawn to young people.

His attitude could be a bit too optimistic, especially in regards to love relationships. Hugh Robert Mill loves to day-dream and may have many romantic and erotic imaginations that never materialize. He may have a flair for writing beautiful love poems.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aquarius

Moon in 4th house

Moon Quincunx Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Saturn

Moon Quincunx Saturn

Moon aspects Mars and Neptune

Moon Sextile Neptune

Moon Opposition Mars/Saturn

Moon Opposition Jupiter/MC

Venus in Gemini

Venus in 9th house

Venus Conjunct Uranus

Venus Conjunct Sun/Mercury

Venus Conjunct Jupiter/Neptune