Helen Hayes
in Relationships
Even-tempered and peace loving, she is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Helen Hayes has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Hayes is tremendously stubborn and resists any change that requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in her home life or marriage.
Helen Hayes seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to her loved ones and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Hayes tends to cling to others and prevent them from changing.
A great deal of physical affection, closeness and touching is crucial to Helen's well-being, and she has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Helen Hayes substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.
Helen Hayes may have done extensive traveling in her early years, or in some way had a background which enables her to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.
Hayes has a craving for things which are far away and foreign or for things she has never experienced before. Helen Hayes wants to completely immerse herself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply have facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally, too, Helen is restless and something of a wanderer.
She is temperamental and impatient and can be very difficult to live with. Helen Hayes tends to respond with a temper tantrum (overt or subtle) if her desires are frustrated. Helen Hayes becomes very irritable and bad-tempered if she lacks vigorous physical activity or other outlets for her aggressive, feisty spirit.
Helen Hayes tends to have strange quirks, idiosyncrasies, or domestic habits, and she may feel that she does not fit in with "normal" people. These could be endearing eccentricities, or truly outlandish tastes and behavior. Establishing a steady routine and rhythm in her life and relationships would be very beneficial but may not be easily achieved. Ideally Helen Hayes can create a unique lifestyle that affords her a lot of personal space, freedom, and flexibility to follow her own somewhat erratic rhythms - while at the same time providing some order and consistency. There is a current of emotional discontent or restlessness within Helen also, which may be reflected in unstable personal relationships of the on again/off again variety. Helen Hayes craves change and excitement whether she realizes it consciously or not.
Her health should be good and her recuperative powers are strong. Helen Hayes is able to express her feelings harmoniously and she considers herself wealthy either on material or spiritual planes. She is well liked and her relationships with others are congenial.
Emotionally excitable, Hayes tends to act impulsively and make rash decisions without thinking of the consequences. Others may see Helen as an eccentric, somewhat selfish and unpredictable. Helen Hayes seems to attract sudden upsetting experiences.
She is quietly devoted and faithful to her loved ones and often becomes subservient to her love partner. Helen Hayes is more comfortable showing her love by doing or making something for her loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. She is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Helen Hayes also underestimates her attractiveness and lovability and doubts her own worthiness of love and appreciation.
Helen Hayes often hides her affection, or finds her feelings difficult to express or get across to the person she loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Helen. She may feel her love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Helen Hayes may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to her. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Helen Hayes - having to give something up to be with the one she loves, or having to relinquish some person or some aspect of an important love relationship.
Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Helen Hayes in love relationships. She is cautious about giving her heart away but true to the one who does win her love. Her tastes are simple, even austere, and she does not appreciate frivolity. Hayes is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in her or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Helen Hayes at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for her with time.
Helen Hayes has a rich, colorful, dreamy imagination and a refined sense of beauty. Involvement in the arts, or with artistic, sensitive, or spiritually inclined people is very satisfying to her. In her friendships and romantic relationships, Hayes tends to be unselfish, giving, and forgiving. Helen Hayes might enjoy joining with others for charitable events or social service.
Helen Hayes has a vivid imagination and is likely to imagine the most wonderful things, but she may over-idealize and tend to expect too much of love relationships. Helen tries to escape unpleasant experiences through fantasy and deception.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Taurus
Moon in 9th house
Moon Square Mars
Moon Quincunx Uranus
Moon Opposition Sun/Jupiter
Moon Opposition Sun/Uranus
Venus in Virgo
Venus in 12th house
Venus Trine Saturn
Venus Sextile Neptune
Venus Conjunct Mercury/Neptune
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