Harry Reems
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. Harry Reems denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Harry Reems needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. Harry Reems also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.

Harry Reems often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when Reems thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. Harry is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. Harry Reems has good psychological insight into others.

Generally sunny and optimistic, Harry Reems has a cheering effect on those around him. Harry likes and needs people, and others genuinely like him too. He enjoys a wide circle of friends who are like family to him. Entertaining, partying, social activities, and fellowship are essential to his emotional well-being.

His emotional tension could be quite strong and the pressure may seem unbearable at times. He may have a sudden desire to liberate himself from the stress and may release his tension towards women. Harry Reems could also feel lonely and depressed at times.

Harry Reems tends to go to extremes to be different or to preserve his freedom, and his nature is rather thoughtless, impatient and restless. He is daring and audacious, ambitious and determined, but feels that things can only be accomplished by using force.

He is quietly devoted and faithful to his loved ones and often becomes subservient to his love partner. Harry Reems is more comfortable showing his love by doing or making something for his loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. He is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Harry Reems also underestimates his attractiveness and lovability and doubts his own worthiness of love and appreciation.

Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Harry Reems very happy. Harry wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Harry Reems may be "married to" his work - namely he may be more involved in his career than in his private life. Reems is a natural host or diplomat.

Harry Reems has a good understanding of his own needs but also is genuinely interested in other people. Others are attracted to Reems because of his gentle, kind and friendly manner and he may feel especially drawn to young people.

It is easy for Harry Reems to show others the love he feels for them and he talks freely to them about his feelings. Harry likes nice surroundings and wants to beautify his environment as quickly as possible, once he has come up with an idea to do so.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 3rd house

Moon Sextile Jupiter

Moon Opposition Saturn/Uranus

Moon Opposition Uranus/Pluto

Venus in Virgo

Venus in 10th house

Venus Conjunct Sun/Mercury

Venus Conjunct Uranus/Asc.