approach to life and appearances
The following is a description of Harriet's basic stance toward life, the way others see her, the way Harriet Miers comes across, the face she shows to the world. In the page about motivation you will read about the inner Harriet Miers - her real motivation, which describes the kind of person she is at heart and where her true priorities lie. Study this page and the next one and compare them - there may be significant differences between the two, in which case "the inner Harriet Miers" may not shine through and others may be in for so a few surprises once they get to know Harriet a little better. This page describes the disguise Miers wears, her role in life, while the page about motivation talks about the real person beneath the disguise.
She is a natural diplomat, reasonable, tolerant, fair, always willing to listen to varying viewpoints, and prepared to see the other side of an issue. Even if she strongly disagrees with someone, Harriet Miers will try to find points of similarity and agreement rather than emphasizing the differences. She often avoids taking an extreme or one-sided stance on anything. Harriet has a strong desire for harmonious and pleasant relationships, and revels in a spirit of cooperation, compromise, friendship, and fairness. Harriet Miers very much wants to be liked and because of her need for approval and acceptance, Miers is easily influenced by others' opinions, especially those expressed by the young. She so much wants to please that often Harriet Miers will suppress her own intense or unpleasant feelings in order to avoid offending others. Sometimes Miers' politeness is interpreted as being phony or wishy-washy.
Her need to create harmony extends to her physical environment and personal appearance as well. Harriet Miers appreciates beauty and has a natural sense of balance, symmetry, and proportion. She does everything in good taste, with a sense of style and art. From her home furnishings to her choice of clothing, everything must be aesthetically appealing, not simply functional or utilitarian.
She also feels that relationships are a form of art - one that Miers is especially interested in and usually quite skilled at, for Harriet possesses tact and acute awareness of other people. Marriage is very significant to her and finding the right person to share her life with is extremely important. Being part of a close relationship seems natural to Harriet Miers - she is not an independent loner. Having a partner increases her self-confidence. Harriet Miers does have a tendency, however, to become overly dependent on her partner and perhaps not to develop a clearly defined identity outside of the relationship. Finding the balance between being herself and blending and uniting with another is a challenge for Harriet.
Others see Harriet Miers as an agreeable, smooth, harmonious, and "nice" person. Though there may be much more to her, this is the sort of face Miers shows to the world. She possesses personal charm and an understated, non-combative manner. Her motto could be "one catches more flies with honey than with vinegar" for Harriet Miers usually adopts a friendly, cooperative approach rather than a strong, forceful, I'm-going-to-conquer-the-world attitude.
Harriet Miers appears contained, and perhaps wary or mistrustful as well. She watches her step, and frequently withdraws if her environment does not feel welcoming and safe. As a result, Miers may seem much more conservative than she actually is. Harriet fears making mistakes in social situations, and is extremely sensitive to criticism or rejection. As she matures, Harriet Miers is likely to grow in confidence, because she will learn to depend more on her own evaluation of herself.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn Square Asc.