challenges and difficulties
Guy has difficulty asserting his will and desires directly and openly. He may also suppress his anger and aggressiveness. Developing self-confidence, courage, and faith in himself are important tasks for Ritchie.
It may be difficult for Guy Ritchie to play spontaneously or just let his hair down, for he tends to inhibit that side of his by being too self-conscious and concerned with the impression he is making.
Guy may work very hard at some sport or creative medium in order to excel, for he wants very, very much to be noticed, acknowledged, and recognized as special in some way. Though he may indeed be outstanding, Guy Ritchie also needs to learn to relax and enjoy himself more.
At times Guy Ritchie struggles with nebulous worries and insecurities, fears which may be difficult to name. Mostly, he may be afraid of getting acquainted with the inner workings of his mind and soul, feeling uneasy with anything irrational or intangible. Guy Ritchie has to work hard to overcome being overly serious regarding the spiritual side of life, especially if his religious upbringing emphasized guilt and retribution. Reorienting himself in the direction of spiritual optimism will do much to lift the cloud of worry that settles over Guy occasionally.
Guy Ritchie tends to be his own worst enemy, demanding inhuman perfection of himself and harshly criticizing or persecuting himself when he does not measure up. Perhaps circumstances or relationships in his life have been extremely difficult and demanding, reinforcing Guy's belief that he must struggle alone.
He is capable of tremendous effort and of overcoming great odds and handicaps. Through these efforts Guy Ritchie develops his power and inner strength. However, Guy Ritchie should not make life harder than it is. He must give himself permission to let up sometimes, and to realize that he is only human.
Guy Ritchie tends to have a pessimistic outlook and he seems to be plagued by deep inner conflicts, which could severely undermine his strength. Self-critical and uncertain about his goals, Guy feels that he cannot live up to his ideals and end up disappointed.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Guy Ritchie instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Guy Ritchie needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Seeking harmonious interpersonal relationships, cooperation, and togetherness, as well as the desire to please or appease other people, are drives that come very naturally to Guy Ritchie - so much so that he seeks them out at his own expense. When he is under stress, Ritchie tends to look outside himself for approval or answers, and he leans on others too much. Therefore, developing self-reliance, and the courage to look inwardly for answers and forge his own path through life is a key factor in his self-development.
Guy Ritchie is often tempted to be less than completely straightforward about his intentions or desires, and he can become enmeshed in a quagmire of "little white lies". Stark honesty - both inward and toward others - is the only way out! This, however, leads to the need to confront some of Ritchie's most deeply ingrained fears, such as "what if they do not like me?" and "what if I have to go through this alone?".
Guy Ritchie needs to cultivate his ability to be assertive, take initiative and act on his own behalf. Directness and self-reliance are imperative.
The arena he is most likely to wrestle with these issues is in playful self-expression, games or sports, and creativity. Guy Ritchie should try to develop any artistic, expressive, creative potentials he feels he possesses, utilizing the qualities described above.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Guy Ritchie back, or which he is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
Excessive thinking, rationalizing or talking, the overuse or misuse of Ritchie's intellectual abilities and the tendency to allow his energy to be dissipated in trivial activities.
The tendency for self-indulgence, laziness, and over-reliance on the generosity or affection of others, as well as making love relationships, social life and superficial pleasures more important than anything else in his life.
He is very social, loves artistic events and entertainment, and has the ability to show his feelings without reservation. Guy Ritchie probably found joy in learning things early in life and he keeps in close relationships with his family and other relations.
His relationships with others could be rather unstable and unreliable. With a somewhat negative attitude and weak will, Guy Ritchie avoids opposition and escapes his responsibilities. In his relationships he is likely to choose people who are asocial.
He is very obliging and always looks for relationships with other people. Guy Ritchie tends to feel really at home with his family or in groups or associations that he may join. Guy has a strong desire to feel at one with his community.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Aries
Saturn in 5th house
Saturn Quincunx Neptune
Saturn Quincunx Pluto
Saturn Opposition Neptune/Pluto
N. Node in Aries
N. Node in 5th house
N. Node Opposition Mercury
N. Node Opposition Venus
N. Node Opposition Mercury/Venus
N. Node Opposition Mars/Neptune
N. Node Opposition Asc./MC