Glenn Miller in Relationships
He is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others his feelings. Though he may love and care for someone a great deal, Glenn Miller rarely expresses his feelings openly and freely. Very often Miller's love for someone is expressed by his wish to help him, do something tangible to benefit him or serve him in some way.
It is also difficult for him to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for he often feels that he does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Miller may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than he feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Glenn difficult to live with. Glenn Miller needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with himself.
Glenn has strong attachments to his past, the place where he grew up, his heritage and family traditions. In fact, Glenn Miller may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that he learned as a child. Miller's ties to his mother are very strong and Glenn also seeks nurturing and protection from his spouse and other family members.
There is a side to Glenn Miller that loves comfort and the easy life, and unless other factors in his chart indicate strong drive and ambition, Miller can be lazy and overly permissive with himself. He enjoys being taken care of and pampered, and self-indulgence is always a temptation for Miller. If Glenn's parents made the unfortunate mistake of indulging him too much as a child, this may be a very hard habit to break. Glenn Miller can be so softhearted and affectionate that it is hard to say no to him. Eating too many sweets is a vice Glenn is particularly prone to.
Glenn Miller tends to be touchy, defensive and rather territorial, and if he perceives a threat to his family or home or personal safety, he can be quite aggressive. Sometimes Glenn feels out of sorts and hostile for no apparent reason, and this is usually due to unexpressed, unresolved anger from the past. Glenn Miller also has a desire to lead, to compete, or to be a free agent - and he is not entirely conscious of this desire. It is good for Miller to have benign outlets and ways to let off steam on a regular basis, such as demanding physical work or athletics. Otherwise Glenn Miller may be rather hard to live with, even abusive in his relationships.
Although Glenn Miller was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Glenn's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
Glenn Miller tends to surround himself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in his personal relationships. It is easy for Glenn to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Glenn Miller may share this type of telepathic link with his mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.
Miller instinctively knows his mission in life. He is satisfied knowing inside himself what he can do and he does not feel the need to be dependent on anyone. But Glenn Miller is also sensitive to others' needs and has a strong desire to spend time with his loved ones.
Glenn has an affectionate, warm-hearted, congenial and fun loving nature, and his emotional impulses are quite strong. Forming relationships with others is important to Glenn Miller and he may have an early desire for marriage.
Glenn Miller has a good-natured disposition and an affectionate and cordial manner. Charming, optimistic and outgoing, he is warm and friendly to everyone he meets. Miller is at peace with the world and want to share his feelings with his friends and acquaintances.
He is open and unconventional in his attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. He enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Glenn Miller values friendship very highly and in fact, he is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Glenn desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with his love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to him. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Miller, and he abhors jealousy and possessiveness since he feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Glenn Miller appreciates relationships in which his love partner allows him plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.
Glenn is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show him places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.
Moreover, Glenn Miller feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.
Glenn Miller seems to have an unusual power of attraction to other people and frequently may associate with others whether they are good for him or not. Very compulsive in love relationships, Miller could have a kind of tragic love union.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 4th house
Moon Quincunx Venus
Moon Quincunx Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Sextile Neptune
Moon Opposition Sun/MC
Moon Opposition Venus/Mars
Moon Opposition Venus/Jupiter
Venus in Aquarius
Venus in 9th house
Venus Opposition Pluto/N. Node
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