Gianna Distenca
in Relationships

She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Gianna Distenca rarely expresses her feelings openly and freely. Very often Distenca's love for someone is expressed by her wish to help her, do something tangible to benefit her or serve her in some way.

It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Distenca may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than she feels.

A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Gianna difficult to live with. Gianna Distenca needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.

She is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for her belongings give Gianna Distenca a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to her. Antiques or articles with sentimental value from Gianna's past are especially dear to her.

Gianna Distenca may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of her immediate circle.

She is subject to changing moods and tends to alternate between associating with others and being completely alone, seeking to regenerate herself in solitude. Gianna Distenca seems to be too critical of herself and tends to generate distance from others.

Her sense of reality is a bit weak; Distenca tends to daydream and lose herself in her plans. She is likely to be preoccupied with fantasies or ideas that help her escape the ordinary. Always looking for ideal relationships, Gianna may be drawn to philanthropic associations.

In a love relationship, Gianna Distenca is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Gianna likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps her guessing and Gianna Distenca becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises her. It is very important to Gianna Distenca's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Gianna Distenca needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Distenca finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.

Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Gianna Distenca very happy. Gianna wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and she wants to be recognized for her beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Gianna Distenca may be "married to" her work - namely she may be more involved in her career than in her private life. Distenca is a natural host or diplomat.

While she may seek loving relationships and an "everlasting" love, this is not easy for Gianna Distenca to find - or more precisely, to sustain. When Gianna becomes romantically involved with someone, either she or the other person will create rifts once a certain level of comfort and predictability has been achieved. Even if there is no outward break in the relationship, a certain emotional aloofness or dissatisfaction is apt to develop. This is because Gianna Distenca really wants both closeness and absolute freedom - a combination that is difficult to attain. However, if she does not at least attempt to honestly fulfill both of these urges, seemingly random events will wreak havoc in Gianna's closest relationships.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Virgo

Moon in 2nd house

Moon Opposition Jupiter/Saturn

Moon Opposition Jupiter/Neptune

Venus in Gemini

Venus in 10th house

Venus Quincunx Uranus