Gertrude Lawrence
in Relationships
Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Gertrude Lawrence denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Gertrude Lawrence needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Gertrude Lawrence also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.
Gertrude has strong attachments to her past, the place where she grew up, her heritage, and family traditions. In fact, Gertrude Lawrence may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that she learned as a child. Lawrence's tie to her mother is very strong and Gertrude Lawrence also seeks nurturing and protection from her spouse and other family members as well.
She is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Gertrude Lawrence cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and she can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Lawrence's motto.
Although Gertrude Lawrence was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, she also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Gertrude's fiery reactions somewhat, or she may seesaw between the two. Her softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
Highly sensitive and rather easily taken in, Gertrude Lawrence needs to beware of deceiving herself and allowing others to take advantage of her impressionability or gentleness. Daydreaming, fantasizing, or other forms of imaginative, escapist behavior (such as watching television excessively or living her life through romance novels) could be something of an addiction for Lawrence. Gertrude Lawrence tends to confuse images with reality and needs to learn to be more circumspect and discriminating. Disappointments through women and in close relationships may occur if Lawrence does not.
Gertrude Lawrence has a dreamy nature and an inclination to be influenced or led easily by other people. Gertrude looks for the perfect mate and dream of fulfillment. Gertrude Lawrence must learn to deal with her extreme idealism and to face life a little more realistically.
She is hot-tempered and tends to get annoyed and angered easily. Very competitive, Gertrude Lawrence is always willing to take on any challenge. Tact and diplomacy are not of her strong points and Gertrude must learn to master her irritability and quarrelsomeness.
Warmhearted and generous in love relationships, Gertrude Lawrence cannot tolerate pettiness or stinginess in her partner. Gertrude wants a hero to idolize and adore, someone to wholeheartedly admire and be proud of. Gertrude Lawrence is tremendously loyal and devoted once she gives her heart to someone.
Gertrude Lawrence craves love, appreciation and attention from others and hates to be ignored. She is rather susceptible to flattery and loves to feel special. Lawrence enjoys a touch of drama and color in her love relationships and she is impressed by grand romantic gestures or extravagant expressions of generosity.
Lawrence is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Gertrude Lawrence thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.
She is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in her love relationships - often because Gertrude Lawrence puts her desires ahead of her partner's, and is impatient to have her love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Gertrude Lawrence and she is not happy without a love partner. Lawrence can "burn herself out" by pouring so much of her energy into romance.
Her romantic relationships tend to be deep, intense, passionate, and highly emotional. It is "all or nothing" with her. Oftentimes Gertrude Lawrence is irresistibly attracted to someone and feels that she has very little choice or control over her powerful feelings.
She may well be highly magnetic and sexually attractive herself. Gertrude Lawrence should beware of using this power to manipulate people, for she could gain the reputation of being a "user".
Gertrude has an affectionate nature and is in harmony with her environment. Charming and friendly, she is on good terms with most of the people in her sphere. Her friends and associates mean a lot to Gertrude Lawrence and her relationships are positive and loving.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Capricorn
Moon in 4th house
Moon Trine Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Quincunx Neptune
Moon Opposition Venus/Neptune
Moon Opposition Mars/Asc.
Venus in Leo
Venus in 11th house
Venus Square Mars
Venus Sextile Pluto
Venus Conjunct Sun/Asc.
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