Gertrude Ederle
in Relationships
Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Gertrude Ederle denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Gertrude Ederle needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Gertrude Ederle also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.
Gertrude Ederle has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Gertrude sometimes lets her emotions overpower her reasoning and logic, and consequently she is sometimes biased in her opinions. Gertrude Ederle is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way she appears. Her feelings are on the surface and Gertrude cannot hide her emotions.
In love relationships, Gertrude Ederle seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. She enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Gertrude, and she is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than her own. Gertrude Ederle supports her partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. She also very much wants a partner who will encourage her own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Gertrude that she have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with her love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Gertrude Ederle is not especially sentimental and her love partner may feel that she is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.
Ederle is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Gertrude Ederle thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.
Her tastes and natural inclinations run toward the extravagant and luxurious. Whether or not Gertrude Ederle possesses the resources to satisfy these desires or the ambition to provide these things for herself, she wants a life with plenty, ease, and comfort. Gertrude may cause trouble in her love relationships by focusing too much attention on money or "lifestyle" rather than on the person she is with. Gertrude Ederle may also attract gold diggers or parasites who will take advantage of her hospitality as long as she allows them to. Indiscretion in matters of both heart and pocketbook can be problems as well.
Gertrude's pleasure-loving nature and her emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing her affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Gertrude Ederle is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times she is far more contained as described here. Because she is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Ederle is to being left out or unappreciated.
She is serious and finds it difficult to enjoy herself in a lighthearted, open and playful way with others. Gertrude Ederle rarely does something purely for pleasure, and can be very close-fisted and parsimonious. Perhaps due to painful separations in her early life, Gertrude is very cautious about becoming involved in close relationships and sharing her feelings. Though Ederle craves love and affection, intimacy is difficult for her. She may become romantically involved with people who do not value her or treat her well. Gertrude Ederle needs to learn to love and value herself before she finds happiness in love.
It is absolutely essential for Gertrude Ederle not to deceive herself when it comes to love relationships, romance, or the true nature of other people. Gertrude tends to be in love with love, and can be incredibly naive and easily seduced. Confusion, disappointments, and regrettable mistakes in both emotional and financial matters may result. On the other hand, it is also possible that Gertrude Ederle will use her attractiveness or charm to deceive others. Clarity, directness, honesty, and realism regarding romantic relationships and people in general, need to be developed.
She is strongly attracted to the opposite sex and her relationships tend to be harmonious. Gertrude Ederle will probably marry for love and her mate will be a friend to her as well as a lover. The atmosphere in her family life is affectionate and protective.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Capricorn
Moon in 1st house
Venus in Sagittarius
Venus in 11th house
Venus Quincunx Jupiter
Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Venus Square Saturn
Venus Quincunx Neptune
Venus Conjunct Sun/Moon
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