Gene Parsons
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Gene Parsons only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Parsons.

Gene has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Gene Parsons has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Gene Parsons to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Gene Parsons has a great deal of emotional depth.

Gene has strong attachments to his past, the place where he grew up, his heritage, and family traditions. In fact, Gene Parsons may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that he learned as a child. Parsons' tie to his mother is very strong and Gene Parsons also seeks nurturing and protection from his spouse and other family members as well.

He is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Gene Parsons cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and he can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Parsons' motto.

There is a side to Gene Parsons which loves comfort and the easy life, and unless other factors in his chart indicate strong drive and ambition, Parsons can be lazy and overly permissive with himself. He enjoys being taken care of and pampered, and self-indulgence is always a temptation for Parsons. If Gene's parents made the unfortunate mistake of indulging him too much as a child, this may be a very hard habit to break. Gene Parsons can be so soft and affectionate that it is hard to say no to him. Eating too many sweets is a vice Gene is particularly prone to.

Gene has intense desires and feelings and his personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well. Gene Parsons has powerful magnetic relationships with those he cares about, and he could become emotionally obsessed by another person. His feelings can become so urgent and compelling that he behaves irrationally. Gene Parsons undergoes periodic emotional upheavals and purging when he must break all ties with the past and begin anew.

Gene Parsons has a magnetic personality, are unconventional, and a bit unpredictable. Gene loves to flirt and is likely to have sudden romantic relationships that do not always last. Gene Parsons likes variety and always is seeking new experiences with people.

Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Gene Parsons gives very selflessly and devotedly to those he loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon him. More compassionate than passionate, Gene Parsons may become romantically involved with a person because he or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.

He is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Gene feels he can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Gene Parsons idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.

Gene is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show Parsons places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.

Also, Gene Parsons feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.

Gene Parsons tends to be attracted to people who are not quite what they seem. Gullible, romantic and rather easily seduced, Gene frequently falls in love with an image in his own mind, which he then projects onto the object of his affections, only to discover later that this person never really had the lovely qualities he endowed her with. Gene Parsons also confuses love relationships with pity, sacrifice, or misplaced notions of "selfishness", thereby setting himself up to be taken advantage of. He is capable of great devotion to a spiritual cause, for he is actually seeking some sort of transcendent or mystical experience through love.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 4th house

Moon Trine Mars

Moon Quincunx Venus

Moon Square Pluto

Moon Opposition Venus/Uranus

Venus in Pisces

Venus in 9th house

Venus Opposition Neptune