challenges and difficulties
Hauser both yearns for, and fears, being emotionally vulnerable with others and experiencing deep emotional intimacy. Trusting others and letting himself be known in a deep way does not come easily to Gaylord, and sexual inhibitions may result from this. Gaylord Hauser is very self-protective and may be compulsively secretive. Learning to relinquish control in personal relationships, and to be completely open, is an important task for Hauser.
His fears revolve around money and material security, and Gaylord Hauser works very hard to ensure that his assets are solid. He may be very conservative, even stingy, with his money because he is afraid there will not be enough. He may turn this fear around and become very shrewd about investments and financial matters.
Gaylord should take care not to trust others too blindly. Some of his friends or associates may be untruthful and try to deceive him, resulting in great disappointments or even losses for Hauser.
Gaylord wants to go his own way and tends to withdraw into himself. He prefers to be alone and tends to cut himself off from other people. Gaylord Hauser could be a bit too serious and conservative.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Gaylord Hauser instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Gaylord Hauser needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
Cultivating the qualities of empathy, gentleness, and compassion will help counterbalance Hauser's deeply ingrained perfectionism and critical nature. When under stress, he is apt to try to rigorously analyze and focus on what needs to be corrected or improved, and he can easily become problem-oriented and lose sight of the big picture.
Gaylord Hauser has to learn to relax and surrender to the flow of events without having to figure everything out all the time. He should let his feelings and intuitions flow more freely, be more flexible and fluid, use his imagination and let his dreams emerge!
It is in his marriage and other intimate, one-to-one relationships that he is most likely to wrestle with these issues. He may see the qualities that he needs to develop more fully (described above) in his partner. It is important for Gaylord Hauser to recognize, appreciate, and listen to the people in his life who express such attributes, as well as to develop them himself. Gaylord Hauser has to put energy and attention into learning about others, and about himself through others.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Scorpio
Saturn in 2nd house
Saturn Opposition Neptune/N. Node
Saturn Opposition N. Node/MC
N. Node in Pisces
N. Node in 7th house