challenges and difficulties
Gavin Henson takes his personal relationships so seriously that they may seem more like work, constant effort, and compromise, rather than a free and enjoyable sharing. He may feel that relationships in general require more of him than they are worth, and Gavin enters into any close relationship cautiously and conscientiously. Gavin Henson also fears entrapment in close relationships.
Gavin Henson takes both his work and his health very seriously, but he may demand so much of his at work that he compromise his health. Gavin can become a workaholic, not so much because he has lofty ambitions, but because he never feels like he has done enough. Gavin Henson is overly responsible or overly conscientious at work, so much so that he may not enjoy it at all.
Henson can also get overly involved in self-improvement or his health, and he tends to be a bit of a hypochondriac.
He is suspicious of groups, crowds, and social organizations. Henson is quick to pick up on social charades and insincerity and avoids the limelight and glamour. Gavin Henson is direct and to the point in speech and manner, stubborn and inflexible, and often unwilling to communicate his innermost feelings and thoughts.
Around others Henson is somewhat humble and shy and prefer to be by himself. Gavin Henson tends to limit his relationships with others and associates only with like-minded people. He is inclined to be cool and reserved even toward those he loves.
He is not afraid of hard work and leaves no stone unturned in the pursuit of his objectives. Gavin Henson has a strong desire to overcome any difficulties or obstacles in his way and will do this at all cost, even if it means having to use force.
Now we will discuss patterns of behavior which Gavin Henson instinctively and habitually reverts to when under stress - a mostly subconscious process that he is apt to over indulge in because it is so familiar and hence easy for him. The direction Gavin Henson needs to follow in order to develop balance, greater awareness, and wholeness is also described.
When under stress, Gavin Henson is apt to shut off the flow of his emotions and ignore his needs and feelings in order to do what he perceives as his duty or simply what the practical realities of the situation dictate. This can lead to a certain rigidity and inflexibility. If overdone, self-control, self-discipline, or an exaggerated concern over what society, family or others expect of him, makes life more of a burden than an adventure.
Fostering his tender, caring, feminine, and nurturing aspects is an important step in Gavin Henson's growth. Gavin Henson needs to learn how to nourish and lovingly tend to both himself and others. Letting himself be taken care of sometimes is okay!
It is in his way of thinking, processing information and communicating that Gavin Henson is most likely to wrestle with these issues. In Henson's relationships with neighbors, colleagues, and acquaintances, he needs to try to bring out the qualities described above.
The specific habits which are likely to hold Gavin Henson back, or which he is prone to overdo, especially during stressful periods, include:
The tendency for self-indulgence, laziness, and over-reliance on the generosity or affection of others, as well as making love relationships, social life and superficial pleasures more important than anything else in his life.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Saturn in Libra
Saturn in 6th house
Saturn Conjunct Pluto
Saturn Opposition Venus/N. Node
Saturn Conjunct Mars/Pluto
N. Node in Cancer
N. Node in 3rd house
N. Node Opposition Venus