Frieda Hughes
in Relationships

Frieda does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and she is often unaware of her own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder her and make her very uncomfortable. Frieda Hughes would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but she tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe her own or others' inner depths.

Frieda Hughes avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.

She needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom she can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Hughes. The strong, silent partner is not for her.

She is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for her belongings give Frieda Hughes a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to her. Antiques or articles with sentimental value from Frieda's past are especially dear to her.

Frieda Hughes may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of her immediate circle.

Highly sensitive and rather easily taken in, Frieda Hughes needs to beware of deceiving herself and allowing others to take advantage of her impressionability or gentleness. Daydreaming, fantasizing or other forms of imaginative, escapist behavior (such as watching television excessively or living her life through romance novels) could be something of an addiction for Hughes. Frieda Hughes tends to confuse images with reality and needs to learn to be more circumspect and discriminating. Disenchantment with women and close relationships could ensue as a result.

Frieda has intense desires and feelings and her personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well. Frieda Hughes has powerful magnetic relationships with those she cares about, and she could become emotionally obsessed by another person. Her feelings can become so urgent and compelling that she behaves irrationally. Frieda Hughes undergoes periodic emotional upheavals and purging when she must break all ties with the past and begin anew.

Frieda has the ability to speak with her heart and soul and therefore to convince people. She is adaptable in both her thinking and speaking, but also changeable. In her work Frieda Hughes can be a fanatic, at times inconsiderate and expects too much of others.

Frieda Hughes seems to float above reality and has a very intense imagination. Frieda likes to daydream and is apt to have many wishes and illusions that rarely have a chance to materialize. She is guided by her feelings and seems to live in a world of her own.

Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Frieda Hughes gives very selflessly and devotedly to those she loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon her. More compassionate than passionate, Frieda Hughes may become romantically involved with a person because she or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.

She is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Frieda feels she can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Frieda Hughes idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.

Frieda Hughes often hides her affection, or finds her feelings difficult to express or get across to the person she loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Frieda. She may feel her love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Frieda Hughes may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to her. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Frieda Hughes - i.e. having to give something up to be with the one she loves, or having to relinquish a person or an aspect of an important love relationship.

In love relationships and romance, it is important for Frieda Hughes to be able to deeply respect her partner. Frieda looks beyond the superficial qualities to see their inner worth (or lack thereof), before she lets herself really fall for someone. In fact, too much glamour or flashiness is something of a turn-off for her. Frieda Hughes is capable of mature, lasting, loving relationships and seeks a mate who is deep, loyal, and committed. She may be drawn to someone older than her.

When it comes to love relationships, Hughes is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to her desire for depth and security in her relationships, Frieda Hughes has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Frieda acts on her spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on her personal life.

While she may seek loving relationships and an "everlasting" love, this is not easy for Frieda Hughes to find - or more precisely, to sustain. When Frieda becomes romantically involved with someone, either she or the other person will create rifts once a certain level of comfort and predictability has been achieved. Even if there is no outward break in the relationship, a certain emotional aloofness or dissatisfaction is apt to develop. This is because Frieda Hughes really wants both closeness and absolute freedom - a combination that is difficult to attain. However, if she does not at least attempt to honestly fulfill both of these urges, seemingly random events will wreak havoc in Frieda's closest relationships.

She is romantic and amorous and has a well-developed sexual nature. Frieda expresses her feelings openly, but sometimes could feel hurt if people do not respond to her. Frieda Hughes also has a strong drive to express herself in artistic ways.

Her nature is harmonious and Frieda radiates happiness so that everyone around her will be in good spirits. Her taste is likely to be elegant and she has a strong desire to surround herself with beauty. Frieda Hughes may be interested in fashion, hair-styling or other beauty-related fields.

Frieda Hughes has a need for calm and peaceful surrounding, but her somewhat passionate nature could bring on arguments and fights about love matters. Frieda Hughes loves her work and may connect her profession with a hobby in some way.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Gemini

Moon in 2nd house

Moon Quincunx Neptune

Moon Square Pluto

Moon Conjunct Mercury/Pluto

Moon Opposition Neptune/MC

Venus in Pisces

Venus in 12th house

Venus Sextile Saturn

Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus

Venus Quincunx Uranus

Venus Conjunct Sun/Mars

Venus Conjunct Moon/Jupiter

Venus Conjunct Mars/Asc.