Frank Castillo in Relationships
His desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that he avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Frank Castillo is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. He is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from him, and befriend many different types of people. He is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Frank Castillo is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with himself than others would ever guess based on his flawless disposition.
He is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for his belongings give Frank Castillo a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to him. Antiques or articles with sentimental value from Frank's past are especially dear to him.
Frank Castillo may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of his immediate circle.
He is tolerant and forgiving and always ready to overlook mistakes and give others a second chance. Frank Castillo expects, and draws out, the best from people and he enjoys making others comfortable and happy. Because of his emotional generosity, his life is rich with friends, and often financial blessings as well.
Frank has an unusual sense of humor and enjoys acting a little bit crazy or outlandish sometimes. Castillo craves excitement and emotional freedom and he likes to break the rules and take risks. Anything new or untried appeals to Castillo and he has little patience for restrictive customs. Frank Castillo is attracted to unusual, creative, or offbeat people and nontraditional lifestyles and relationships.
Frank Castillo tends to surround himself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in his personal relationships. It is easy for Frank to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Frank Castillo may share this type of telepathic link with his mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.
Frank has an optimistic outlook, good intuition and the ability to find and use opportunities to his advantage. His quick understanding of things allows Frank Castillo to see beyond ordinary limits, and he has the courage to exploit unexpected breaks.
His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but he may find it difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Frank Castillo enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Frank wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.
Frank is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show him places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.
Moreover, Frank Castillo feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.
Intimacy does not come easily to Frank Castillo and he may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to his emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in his early life, Castillo does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of his barriers and defenses. He may feel that he has few friends or people that really care about him. Frank Castillo needs to learn to value and love himself more and to express his appreciation for others more openly.
He is prone to getting involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel Frank Castillo to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Castillo may be tempted to use his own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if his intentions are basically good, Frank Castillo will find that his closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unsavory aspects of his character (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep surfacing. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.
Frank Castillo tends to think a lot about art and beauty as well as matters of love relationships and is content with the way things are in his life. He is comfortable in talking to someone about his feelings toward them. Frank Castillo also could find artistic endeavors very rewarding.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Libra
Moon in 2nd house
Moon Conjunct Jupiter
Moon Conjunct Uranus
Moon Sextile Neptune
Moon Conjunct Jupiter/Uranus
Venus in Aries
Venus in 9th house
Venus Conjunct Saturn
Venus Quincunx Pluto
Venus Conjunct Mercury/MC
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